Ok so have you ever thought that you've found the one and then they tell you that they are not looking for a relationship at that moment. However he said if it happens it happens. I guess my question is... Should I keep pursuing him without getting my emotions too involved? Or should I slowly let him go and give up?
2007-05-28 03:19:56 · 14 answers · asked by mzlboogie35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all so much for your input. I really appreciate it. I get what each of you are saying. Georgous...you said that there would be alot of "the one's" in our lives... But I've never felt that until now.
2007-05-28 03:35:44 · update #1
I am a strong believer in friends rather than relationships because it makes things so much easier. Be a FRIEND. It might be hard to resist getting a more-than-friendship thing going, but I need to say this: friendship is just the first test and I truly do not believe that a true blue relationship can work without getting to know the person as a friend first, and I believe if this person is putting off a relationship, then you should just nod your head and keep being a friend to this person rather than a lover.
2007-05-28 03:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by My Name Doesn't Fit Here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not interested in a relationship and you are, he is not the one for you. I would give up! Trust me, I know its easier said then done but when you find the right one, you will know it because you guys will feel the same way about each other.There were so many times i was in a relationship and had to beg for the feelings i wanted to hear out of my partner and i never got there...obviously he wasnt the one for me! I am not married the "the one" and trust me when you meet the one you will definitely know bc you both will be on the same page! God bless and good luck!
2007-05-28 10:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kablina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have found the one but if the other person dont feel the same way then that is not fair to you so I would slowly let him go. If not you are going to be hurt. From the time you meet someone you have that feeling and if that is not felt on the other side then its no good of trying to force something that is not there.
2007-05-28 10:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... A girl told me that once...
When I asked my friends for advice, they told me to keep pursuing.
However, if he said "if it happens, it happens," maybe he is playing hard to get...
...and I thought only girls did that... sheesh!
He just might not have an idea of what to do... Maybe you should keep pursuing, but not only do you keep yoursef some distance emotionally, but also try not to come as aggressive.
Maybe he'll figure it out...
2007-05-28 10:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by johnnybravolookalike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quickly let him go. When a guy says that, they are waiting for someone else to have a relationship with. That is one of the most overused lines to women. He is a coward for not telling you the truth.
2007-05-28 10:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by WE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good relationship has to begin slow, I suggest you do it slow. If you push it, it might become something you don't want, you should do it slowly.
2007-05-28 10:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel he is the one and he does not feel anything for you then he is not the one. When somebody is the one that person reponds to your emotions. Is time you move on! Good luck!!!
2007-05-28 10:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm too stubborn to give up. I would still pursue him slowly.
2007-05-28 10:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should wait 4 him a little bit longer.see the thing is he might really want to he just does want to admit it
2007-05-28 10:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by chickadee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are boys so difficult?
i think you should follow your heart, you know, the decision you keep going back too...
do the right thing
2007-05-28 10:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by bbmonkey23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋