Me and my long term gf,have been dating for 7 years.We're engaged rite now!The problems are,i dont know what happens to me,suddenly i felts like i dont deserve her.She is the way too good to me.too perfect for me.Too patient of me.
I'm a jerk!I ever cheated on her for so many times(even i cant counted how many times i did that to her).There are a lot of guys trying to get her.But she wont.
I just cant stand my feelin anymore.Why this feelin suddenly hit me?I felt guilty?
Is this call a true love?
2007-05-28 03:03:31 · 15 answers · asked by PARTTIMEROCKER 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not doin any cheating on her anymore.since we're engaged
and yes i love her so.she is the best
2007-05-28 03:12:15 · update #1
talk with her and come clean with your cheating ways
2007-05-28 03:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by kc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you really loved her you would not have cheated on her. That is one of the worst things you can do to someone in a relationship. It makes it soooo hard to trust that person and if you don't have trust in a relationship then it will eventually fall apart. If you care about her at all you will tell her the mistakes you have made but you are going to have to be ready to deal with what might happen. Sometimes you are in a relationship for a long time like you have been and you grow apart instead of growing together but you are so comfortable in that relationship that you don't want to leave. Trust me, you are better off parting ways as friends then getting married and having her find out later about your affairs. If you care about her at all you will be the one to tell her because finding out from someone else makes it so much worse.
2007-05-28 03:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kelli in FL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is true love on her part but not on yours. If you cheat you are not ready to marry her and shame on you for letting her treat you with respect and love and she wasted on someone like you. The only way that you can fix what you did is to tell her the truth and hope that she boots you out and she can go find a man that deserves her because you do not. It is just now hitting you because at some point in your life you relaized that you have a good thing and now that you have mis treated her {you are thinking with your brain and not with you penis} you are wanting to make it work. The damage is already done. Tell her the truth and set her free. My guess is that she will not stay but there is a chance that she loves you enough to stay. I hope she is smart enough to run. you probably will never stop cheating.
2007-05-28 03:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by Karen S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not true love. If you really loved her then you wouldn't have cheated on her. Seriously if you are gunna keep doing that save her some pain and end it now. I can't believe she would trust you enough to marry you after you have done that to her. But that obviously means she loves you. So marry her if you can grow up, don't marry her if you can never sleep with another woman other than her for the rest of your life.
2007-05-28 03:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by silverboy470 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best cure for a guilty mind is honesty. she deserves for you to be honest with her. and if you want to marry her you need to do it right. marriage is a commitment and that's the reason you get married so the cheating has to stop. if you're prepared for that then go for it. she will be upset when you tell her and it will be hard for both of you but if it's meant to be and if she loves you, it will work itself out. have faith.
2007-05-28 03:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
might as well be! Now, you can't just go on and tell her EVERYTHING out of desperation. If you really love her, then go along and stop cheating on her cold turkey (real fkn hard). If after a while you feel nothing's changed, it could be you'd doomed your relationship before and it's time to say goodbye.
2007-05-28 03:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by lakokotxa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you really love her and know youre feeling guilty for cheating on her when you kno she hasnt cheated on you. If you are serious about being married to her then you need to get serious and stop cheating. If she doesnt deserve it then stop giving her what she doesnt deserve. P.S. Im gonna tell on you! No....Im kidding!! i dont know you!!!! Did my advice help????
2007-05-28 03:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she know you cheated... if not tell her... you wont feel guilty anymore... i think that the other feelings are just from fear... you know that yall are meant to be together... yall have lasted for 7 years... thats a long time... and now you are preparing to spend the rest of your lives together rite...??? i think its just fears... and there will be more fears as it gets closer to the day that yall get married... but don't be tempted my stupid things... but most defiantly need to talk to her about that whole cheating thing...
2007-05-28 03:11:30 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just want to keep on cheating her? hehehe if you feel guilty about it, didn't you feel anything before you cheated her?, It's not true love, it's something called stupid
2007-05-28 03:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of you're able to calm your self down beacause i dont no climate to belive in curses myself. yet you schould constantly attempt to think of on the negetive sign jus in case. So, i could jus sparkling the reflect scratchings off. and replace a clean one and fake nothin has occurred yet nonetheless baring in innovations to video demonstrate out for issues.
2016-12-12 04:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really feel so badly about this than apologize to her. do something really nice or something. guilt goes away only when you make up for it by doing something even better. you're pretty lucky though. sounds like you've got a really nice girl.
2007-05-28 03:08:40 · answer #11 · answered by MuSiC = LiFe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋