I was invited to a small birthday party for this girl whom I have a crush on, and I think she knows, but I am not sure. It was to held at her house in her backyard. The problem is, her cousin was there as well, and I know she has a huge crush on me. The person who invited me wasn't any of the two; but she recently broke up with her bf. There was only 5 people there, all girls, all so pretty, I would've been the only guy there.
Unfortunately I wasn't home and didn't get the message until 5 days too late...I think I missed a party I really should've been at. I am wondering what do you think their intentions were for inviting me to this party? Cause these girls are all acquaintances, not close friends. Do you think maybe it was a test to see who I would spend the most time with while at the party? And therefore who I like? Or am I reading too much into this?
2007-05-28 02:59:09 · 10 answers · asked by Visine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nah, I was home, I just didn't get the message until 5 days too late
2007-05-28 03:07:44 · update #1
I guess they thought you were a friend so they invited you, try not to read more into it than it is.
2007-05-28 03:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are reading too much into this. The one who invited you most likely has a crush on you. If you don't want her to think you feel the same way you shouldn't go to a party with her, especially if you have a crush on someone else at the party. If you had gone and shone more attention to the birthday girl the one who invited you would have gotten her feelings hurt.
2007-05-28 03:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you missed it, so dont rack your brain too much.
The next time I saw her, I would apologize for missing the party, thank her for the invite, and ask her how the party was...this may give you just enough insight on how to press on about her intentions.
If you really have a crush on her, dont worry if any of her friends or cousins like you. She must make up her own mind about you -- so ask her out sometime.
Good Luck!
2007-05-28 03:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by StayThirstyMyFriends 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dude I will tell you what you need to do......and that is move on. Obviously she just cant handle being alone or something you know? Well she let go of you why take her back? You found somebody else and thats who you should stick with and not try to mess that up so that you can get back with your ex. She will only royally screw you over once again dude. You and her had sex. Well I believe that is a special thing between two people and if she gave you up just like that then she is so not worth any of your time. Just because she IM's you does not mean she is interested again. She may have gotten bored. Then again she may be somewhat interested but she is not worth your time. Dont set yourself up for more heartache man......move on.......You may love her but if she doesnt love you ........TRUE LOVE IS NOT THERE
2016-04-01 00:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey guy am a girl and i can tell u , u really missed somethin great ! wat i think is that their intentions were not 2 c whom u spend most of ur time wid , it was 2 b wid u . i think this girl whom u like has also started likin u otherwise y wud she invite u in d first place ?no - not 4 her cousin - gurlz wudnt do somethin 4 somebody else-i can tell u dat or mayb she just called ya 2 make her x-boyfriend jealous.
well only these points can b d reason.again i tell yu dat am a girl so its ofcourse i wud know wats on a girls mind and this is a very simple problem !all d best !
2007-05-28 03:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were setting you up with the cousin who has a crush on you. That would be the way things work in an inner circle of female friends. If one shows interest, the others would help.
2007-05-28 03:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by devoman86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they knew you were out of town and it was a hoax. I don't think you are such a hot item that 5 girls would invite you as the only boy so they could all pant over you.
2007-05-28 03:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are reading to much into this.
pretty girlz can really mess with your head bro.
Actually you may have dodged a bullet. Now you can try to spend time with each of the girlz u like privately. sometimes people act differently in a group setting.
2007-05-28 03:06:08 · answer #8 · answered by nigel v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your obsessing. You missed the party, it makes no difference now. Forget it.
2007-05-28 03:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not reading too much into this. I think you are absolutely correct. You could have had a harem that day. LOL!
2007-05-28 03:04:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋