i'm 19, the man i'm with is 41. (he's divroced - his wife cheated on him, they don't see each other. no kids) i went to the us for 4 months and met him there. i'm russian. we dated and had serious feelings for each other. he's divorced. no kids. his wife cheated on him. we had not only sex, it was definitely not our major occupation. we just spent all day long together. i met his parents, got on well with his friends. when it was time for me to leave, we were both crying. i wanted to say i loved him but i didn't. it would hurt more. he promised to call. he did call when i arrived in russia and said that he missed me terribly.i thought he'd forget me then. but then in 2 months he came over here, like a surprise, said he couldn't live without me, said the day looked so dull if he didn't see me when he woke up, didn't hear me laughing. he said he loved me and wanted to be with me.said he could transfer me to columbria uni if i wanted, if uni was all that important to me, invited me to live with him in the us. what should i do? does he really love me if he came to the other corner of the earth for me?
2007-05-28 02:54:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think it's tough to know if you love someone or if they love you after just a few meetings. i'm sure he really enjoys having lots of sex with a woman half his age. i'm not trying to be negative, just realistic. worry more about how you feel about him and what you want to do. don't quit school, and leave yourself options for how to get out and go home in case things go bad.
2007-05-28 03:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does sound serious and he is not offering marriage as a condition --- as you say it is much more than sex and at the same time you will be able to get a more recognised education and perhaps a better job either in russia or the us --- it is your decision and i am biased as my lady is overseas and i will bring her to austraila but she will be my wife ---- best wishes to you both
2007-05-28 03:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it you don't get many chances at happiness and love, go with it and enjoy life. Good Luck.
2007-05-28 03:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by mianjo413 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he traveled far for you....
2007-05-28 03:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋