I was wondering, what makes a girl attractive to a guy? Not just physically, but intellectually?
2007-05-27 20:00:00 · 9 answers · asked by green eyes. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A woman's understanding and her ability to inspire is was is most valuable.
2007-05-27 20:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a list of the characteristics I'm most attracted to (more or less):
Physically:
Height between 4'10" and 5'8"
Smallish waist, with moderate sized hips and breasts
Not fat
Hair not too short
Cuddly (not sure how else to put it)
Personality:
Easygoing
Friendly
Kind
Respectful
Trustworthy, honest
Reasonable
Straightforward (fairly easy to understand)
Responsible
Decently intelligent
Optimistic (almost no one likes to be around depressing people!)
Affectionate
Kind of high energy level (not ridiculously high, but I don't like lazy girls either)
Oh yeah, it's also attractive for a girl to be a nonsmoker, to drink rarely, and not make a big deal out of everything. Not being a busybody is attractive. (I know some girls who are always involved in so much stuff they don't have any free time.) Also, having slept with very few (or no) other guys is a HUGE plus. Definitely don't make the mistake of having children before you get married. I can't think of anything else off the top of my head. That stuff is not in any particular order, by the way. It's all pretty important too. I might compromise on one or two things, but if a girl was way different I'd have to think hard before getting seriously involved with her. Good night!
2007-05-28 03:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gotta have both, for me. If they just don't have common sense, or if they don't have too much book-smarts, It's a turn off. A hot girl who enters the room and you just know she's ditsy... i make fun of her. But looks are important too. If theirs no physical attraction, no matter how fantastic the girl is intellectually, a good relationship can't occur. So basically, if the girl can understand what she is doing and the reason for it, that is the minimum. The more intellectual the better. And for the physical part, just dress well. You can't really change anything else, so just try to dress yourself so that you show that you care.
2007-05-28 03:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by Miles B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing sexier than having an intellectual conversation with a woman...
2007-05-28 03:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by Rodney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her drive, her focus..cause you don't want a lazy girl. How she is emotionally..cause we all need someone to lean on..how spontaneous she is..cause you don't want things to get repetitive..Her humor..cause you don't want a girl that's too serious all the time...Her respect level..cause we can't respect you if you don't respect yourself...How affectionate she is...and I'm pretty sure that explains itself...and how she incorporates the guys wants/needs/habits/whatever into her life..and vice versa
2007-05-28 03:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by B bka B Lantern 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well for a lot of guys a good sense of humor, being able to handle a little grossness and just love
2007-05-28 03:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by vincintine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men dont really care about intellect.
it seems they care more for a women with a great body!
2007-05-28 03:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by debbs000007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfulness
2007-05-28 03:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by Duane T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i had a sex change, and back when i was a boy, i used to think about their butt cheeks and their clothes
2007-05-28 03:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋