he never does anything with me on the weekends. he says hes spending time with his kids. but how is sitting at his moms house playing spades, considered spending time with his kids. i have kids too and im willing to go out with him on weekends. he is around everyone but me on weekends. he visits his cousin and he hangs out with his brother. and so on. he has never taken me out on a weekend since we started dating and im sick of it. ive talked to him about it and nothing has changed. so what would you do. its been 3 months and hes never introduced me to his kids. ive only been to his house once. im at the point where i dont care anymore. his kids live with him and he always talk to me about them but he wont introduce me. im beginning to think he doesnt think im good enough to meet his kids. im beginning to resent the whole thing. hes met my kids and he comes to my house all the time. how is paying cards every weekend at his moms house and watching the game considered spending time. help
2007-05-27 19:57:30 · 3 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, this is a one-sided relationship. You have mentioned your dissatisfaction and gotten no results. He obviously doesn't care enough to do something about it. So now you have to back up your words with action. Dump him. You will not be happy with the way things are and he is not happy doing it your way. You have reached an impasse.
Move on so you can meet the right one.
2007-05-27 20:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by D 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
His ex may be a bit*h about him introducing the kids to other women. He may not want to bring you into his kids life until he is sure that he will stay with you. Three months is not a long time. It is really not healthy to bring people in and out of your children's lives until you know for sure how you feel. I can't say that I blame him for that. I do, however, feel that he could at least get a sitter occasionally to take you out on the weekends. Maybe you should be moving on. If he doesn't think that your feelings are important, then maybe you should find someone that does.
2007-05-28 03:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I THINK BECAUSE HIS BABY MOM IS STILL AROUND IF NOT THAT THERE IS SOME ONE ELSE HES NOT READY TO GROW UP YET I MEAN LOOK HE STILL LIVES WITH HIS MOMMIES WHAT DOES THAT TELL U DO YOU WANT A BOY OR A MAN U DECIDE
2007-05-28 03:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋