I am a very sensual and sexual person, I have always been.I don't cheat and am very loyal to my boyfriend even though we only have sex but once every 2 months but I am so very frustrated sexually and I was wondering if it is bad that my sex drive is so high and what do you think I should do about it?
2007-05-27 19:36:30 · 18 answers · asked by krazyinchicago 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having a high sex drive is normal.
Hormones flow through the body and there is a normal desire to satisfy the urges they cause... but just because something is desirous and natural doesn't mean it is always in your best interest to follow through...
Sex is a very emotional and, some would say, spiritual encounter. Looking elsewhere or taking that experience outside certain parameters won't lead to anything but short term jubulation (if the short term solution is any good) and long term guilt/shame
2007-05-27 19:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ig88250 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This HAS to be a put on. Ha Ha. Every two months? omg. This is a huge problem (if true). Its called "incompatibility".
You sex drive is so high?!! Every two months?? Now if you had sex every two days and you still were frustrated, THEN I'd say you had high sex drive. Every two months? This HAS to be a put on. If not you should move on since I totally doubt that he will be able to accomodate a normal sex life. Granted "normal" is anywhere from never to on your anniversary to twice a day (or more). Being related to the monkeys, I can assure you that twice a day is more common than annually. But the physical part of the relationship is too important to be ignored. You need to talk to him and see if he is satisfied as things are now. Maybe he would like more or maybe (my guess) he would like less. Two other stray thoughts: 1) they DO sell sex toys for solo performances 2) as men and women get older our sex drive does diminish. You didn't say how old you are. If your bf is like 70 or 90 then it may not be his "drive" thats slow but his stamina and health. Otherwise (if this is real) you got yourself a bf thats way out there on the tail of the distribution - 3)unless he's cheating on you...4)have you tried everything you can to make yourself physically attractive to him? Most of us men find it lots easier to be aroused by physical appearance than we like to admit. Being male IS to be superficial. 5) Viagra? does he have any health problems? Good luck!
2007-05-27 19:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG once every 2 months??? That would have to be a 24 hour marathon to satisfy most people. I really feel sorry for you.
It sounds like you have a very normal sex drive. He probably has the problem, you need to find out what it is and deal with it. Let him know you need more action. If he cant accomodate then you need to evaluate your options...
2007-05-27 19:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of guy is this? he should be asking for it every night... so many guys would kill to have a girl with a high sex drive, my suggestion is tell him what you wrote up there, that you aren't feeling fulfilled sexually and would like to do it more frequently.
2007-05-27 19:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think it is a bad thing to have a high sex drive, why don't you guys have sex more often? that would help with your sexual frustrations or you could get a toy
2007-05-27 19:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frustrated i dont blame you 2 times a month sex is better than any drug with the right person
2007-05-27 19:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange, u having sex just once in 2 months, hmmm, but why, is ur bf sex urgees so low, why dont u spice it up with some nice lingeries and diffrent poses, talk to him, what he says,
sex isnt bad thing
2007-05-27 19:41:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know, Sex is a major part of a relationship, and if he's in the relationship to marry you then why would you want to spend forever with someone who doesn't will now please you sexually
2007-05-27 19:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by B bka B Lantern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....HOW COME you have sex with your bf SO rarely?..Is it because you live far away from each other?...If not...well...then....he may not find you THAT sensual after all;)...You sex drive is JUST normal...but something seems wrong about your bf's one....
2007-05-27 19:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMMFG!!!!!! every 2 MONTHS no way. what is wrong with the guy. Just ask him for sex more often. If he objects then find something else to entertain yourself.
2007-05-27 19:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋