Why is love so complicated? Why is it so hard? Why does it hurt us, but also - why does it make you feel things you never thought in this world were humanly possible? Why do you feel powerful when you're loved?
2007-05-27 18:22:23 · 21 answers · asked by laurenisthebombohyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and you feel something is missing when you're not inlove? and cant explain it? well that's life. that's why we live. to find out what's that missing piece.
.. that didnt answer your question huh.
ugh, 2 points for me.
2007-05-27 18:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by kevin rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should not be complicated due to all the emotions running through you.
Love is hard, for you are letting someone into your life and trusting them with your heart. They should be your Best Friend and your Love.
Love hurts us if their is something wrong in the relationship and they are breaking the friendship/trust/love. That hurts a lot, for you trusted this person with something spacial, your heart.
It makes you feel things you never thought were humanly possible, because someone has your heart. Also you hope and pray that you have theirs. For this person you confide your hopes/dreams/etc... and that feeling they give you excites you. You just can't wait to talk/see/be with them. They are a part of you.
You feel powerful when you are loved because of all the reasons above. You have someone to turn to and share your sadness/happiness. They make you feel so safe and secure.
I hope this helps. Love is a beautiful thing.
2007-05-28 01:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by LRB330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if love wasn't complicated then you would be with the first person you meet then you would not have a reason to worry.its hard because the person means so much to you and you don't want to lose them or see them without something. it hurts use because to apperciate love you have to hurt along the way. because thats what love is happiness, lost, feeling like the world can come down around you at any time.we feel powerful when were loved because we know that there is someone who will catch use when we fall when we need someone and all. some times love is a pain in the butt but when you find the right person love is great.
2007-05-28 01:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A difficult question with answers that stare us in the face! What I mean is, you already know why it's complicated because you've just listed the answers.
It's complicated precisely because of the additional ?'s that you raised. It is hard & painful! It's blissfull and euphoric as well! I'm not sure if 'powerful' is the appropriate term though. Feeling loved certainly raises one's esteem, self-confidence, etc. I'm sure that is what you meant.
Love makes us run the gamut of emotions that affect us physically and mentally. The complications are never eradicated. Being aware of this fact is definitely advantageous though! Seek balance.
Wish you the best of luck! Truly
2007-05-28 02:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by colhadley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,love is complicated as you may be really in love with someone but your heart start beating for someone else.
Love is hard as it is difficult to forget the one you have given your heart to.
Why it hurts because when you lost a love one, it won't came back again.
It makes you feel you never thought in this world were humanly possible as it is the key of life.
You feel powerful when you are in love just because you don't have one but two heart with you.
2007-05-28 01:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way I can answer this is: God is the giver of love because He is love and when you have been given the power to have these intense emotions about someone else all kinds of complications can occur - especially if you are hanging out there in love all by yourself. Girls have a tendency to go so overboard with loving guys. God has given us extra special feelings and emotions because we are also to be mothers and mothers must have that extra something special when providing love and care to a child. Yes, love can put you in a position of greatness and superiority and it can also bring you low level to the ground when you are hurting. But the essence of it all is that we have the power to forgive and to move on in any situation. Love is a great 'feeling', but greater than the 'feeling' is to know love in yourself and the power you have to give it. Love can really never hurt you. Listen to what the Word of God says about love: 1Corinthians 13:4-7: Love suffers long and is kind, it does not envy, does not exhault itself , is not puffed up, does not behave unseemingly (pride), does not seek her own way, is not easily provoked (made angry), but is happy in the truth, bears all things (carries), hopes for the good in all things, endures all things, never fails. Love is everything.
2007-05-28 01:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature for us to be around other people. We build a since of companionship and security that we put faith in and when this bond begins to tear it effects us what we set as a habit in our brains. This is the field where we tend to think about someone else like we think about ourselves and that's were the hard part comes in play. But were human and a part of that is remembering this and learning how to bare and cope with it/becoming stronger. See this is how I felt at one time... (succubus - is a demon who takes the form of a beautiful human female to seduce men... ...often until the point of exhaustion or death. )
through the reflection in my eye
you see me place my hand upon her face
a gentle touch across the lips she takes a taste
through the echos in my ear
you hear sirens of murdering cry
confused i am she patiently waits
as sand grains rub time towards the bottom of its base
a poison sinks into my thoughts
like a virus flowing trough the blood and into the brain
she watches me become less awake
...now it is more humor to me and I have found ways to channel it. And who knows may not be this last time I or anyone in general will be hurt and angry in a situation.
But don't ever have regrets and ever blame it on the next, no matter how many times you start over it really isn't the end of who you are.
2007-05-28 02:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by stalemind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been so deeply in love that I thought I would die when it ended. Twice in my life. One of them I was married to. Love is the most powerful force in the universe. Of course it's going to matter deeply to us. But one thing I know is that lust and love are not automatically proof of each other. I mean, if you are attracted madly, that does not mean it's the right man or woman. True love has everything to do with character: honesty, friendliness, consideration, respect, devotion, and happiness. If there is a lot of pain involved, you have to be brave enough to cut your losses and move on. Otherwise you waste years of your life. I did that. I wasted many years because I lacked the courage to leave a painful situation because I loved him. Leaving was hard. But I have never regretted it, no matter how lonely I get. I have my dignity now, even if I am lonely. It's as important as being in love.
2007-05-28 01:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Christel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because love is powerfull, because God is love and love comes from God, he made us to experience those good feelings and those undescribable days when were in love. The only trick to it though is truely knowing what love really is, theres that kid love where people think there in love , then you get older have sex and think your really in love, and nobody or nothing could change your mind. And then theres that true love, the love that real, ever-lasting. And that love comes from God only, with out his love in your life, you will never truely feel or understand what love really is in this world.
2007-05-28 01:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, those are difficult questions. The best answer I ever heard for why is love hard was because everything worth having is worth fighting for.
2007-05-28 01:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by uncgsprstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is only as complicated as you make it. loving is not hard.... understanding, trusting now that is hard. finding the write person you can truly love is Devine. the power thing.. sweety when two people love equally.... now that is power
2007-05-28 01:30:45 · answer #11 · answered by Duane T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋