This might look like a racist question . but no its not . Do u prefer white bf/gf or black bf/gf . just asking

Question

who do u think is better ?

Answer 1

It shouldn't matter what race they are...

It matters about who the person is. Their personality, hobbies, interests, and who they are...
it doesn't what color they are...
ever think about that?

Answer 2

HAH! I by no ability heard that earlier..'it sounds like an adult channel' yet I have heard the entire 'White leisure Channel' said earlier. yet i do not imagine this is racist..i basically imagine that each and every individual individual has there own selection..basically as someone would favor hamburger over warm canine. yet, the entire racism ordeal is so fairly blown up that this is been made to look that way..

Answer 3

I think that aesthetic preferences in friendships is racist, but I don't think aesthetic preferences in dating are racist. For dating purposes, you could prefer blondes or redheads, or prefer taller men or women. It would not be okay to have distinctions like this for friendships, but it happens all the time in the dating scene. While having aesethetic preferences is okay, it is, however, shallow. You need to have more than physical appearances to build a relationship on.

But there are so many people out there, why can't you have somebody that you're BOTH attracted to and find someone that is good relationship material (for example, someone that is nice!)??? Just as long as you have both, and more emphasis on the good relationship material, then I think it's okay!

I'd say, don't choose someone that you're not going to be attracted to, because once the newness wears off, you have to hold onto that attraction. If it was never there to begin with, then the attempt to become attracted to them is doomed. It's good if you can narrow down what exactly it is that you like, so that you're not busy trying to convince yourself that you're attracted to someone when you're really not. But keep an open mind about what you like too, because you don't want to restrict yourself to one particular type of person, if you actually like other traits too.

Anyway, after that long caveat, I can answer your question. ;)

I think I prefer men with light skin, usually lighter than mine, especially blonds. It wasn't an overt choice, but I just noticed that I had a tendency to pick out those kinds of men, so it must be my preference. ;)

Answer 4

I have only dated black men and that is only because they seem to be the only ones that approach me. I see guys of different races look at me and flirt but they never take that extra step step and get my phone number. I also most admit that I find black men to be very attractive and that I do feel as though no other man can satisfy me like a black man can. I am not talking sexually....more so spiritually and socially. I might have to open up to other races since it seems as if a lot of black guys want every race except their own.

I hope this helps

Answer 5

I don't think it's racist - I'm Chinese and all my boyfriends are white.

Of course when it comes to preferences there're heaps of things, but aesthetically speaking, I like Caucasians as I like the way they look and I'm attracted to them. It doesn't mean I don't find other races beautiful, I find some of them beautiful but I'm just not attracted to them, that's all.

Answer 6

Don't really care...black,white,purple, green....really don't care about the color of their skin just want a man who is a good man, heck he could be glow in the dark with polk a dots and i would be ok if he treated me right lol. For me the whole black vs white thing is just crap. I mean I ain't even white, I am creamy colored and I have met "black" men that are more like the color of chocolate icecream so to just say people are black or white is just stupid to me. We are all different colors and shades of colors.

Answer 7

This question to me is illogical. I never looked at color in determining my friends in friendship or love and romance. It would determine after meeting, talking and the relationship that developed. In total honesty in my case I would have to say Caucasian, since that is who I am married to. This developed due to her already being a close friend and she is who I happened to build a bond, and a strong relationship with. I also have many friends that is of Afro American, Latin, Asian, and Middle Eastern descent that could just have easily have been who I married. It just happened the way it did because of the timing, things (not race) in common, Close family ties with her family.Also school friends as well. I guess you could say She had a head start on the others.

Better wouldn't come in the picture, one person or race is better than the other.

Answer 8

I am a white woman and have dated white and black men...personally with a black man now and very happy...just depends on the quality and character of the person

Answer 9

I'm Caucasian, and I dated a black girl once (and she was dark too) and I was in utter awe and fascination with her amazing looks, her mannerisms, accent and culture, and I fell in love with the people of the black race. I enjoy the incredible differences and appeals the different races offer.

Answer 10

White Girlfriend......I just grew up in an almost white schools for 18 years so I am just more comfortable being with a white girl.

Answer 11

I prefer a white boyfriend.