He's really demanding. ;( But we promised each other that we'll not end our relationship. How can I say him that? Please help. Thanks!
2007-05-27 17:40:33 · 12 answers · asked by song_lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try talking to him about his attitude and let him know how you feel about it. tell him that its affecting you and that you are not willing to take it anymore. if he does't change then you should just leave him.
2007-05-27 17:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by 1~jmg~1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, why would you promise not to end the relationship? and even if you did, how can he stop you?
You only have relationships when both people are happy, if he's demanding, then that's his own insecurities, you can't help him coz he's probably been like this with past relationships.
If he really wants to save his relationship, he would change his attitude towards you and you need to grow a back bone to stand up to him, or just leave him
2007-05-28 00:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy is demanding, the relationship only gets worse.
A while back, I was in a relationship with someone that was extremely demanding. It ended up ruining our relationship. He wasnt happy when I broke up with him, but Im a happier person now because of it.
2007-05-28 00:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's your fault for promising.... Was he always like this or did he change? If he changed, just tell him, the guy I promised not to end our relationship was not a demanding guy and now you are a demanding guy, therefore you are not the same person, therefore our promise is already broken since who you were is not who you are now.... Thank you and.... GOOD BYE! - slams door -
2007-05-28 00:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is for promising not to end a relationship. If his attitude sucks then you talk to him about it. If he isn't going to change then move on.
2007-05-28 00:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like his attitude, then get rid of him. Not ending the relationship can mean still friends. You still have a realtionship with him, but no longer have any pressure. Or you can try to talk to him a bout that, and see where it gets you.
2007-05-28 00:45:24 · answer #6 · answered by Chris G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are human too. Tell him that you deserve the respect that you give him, Tell him that if he continues to demand things of you, he will be looking for a new slave.
Don't ever let a man do that to you. Once you give them control, they think that they can run your life. God gave you a brain, just like God gave him one. Use it, and stand up for your right to decide what YOU want to do in life.
If he can't respect you and your decisions, then it is time for him to hit the road.
2007-05-28 00:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to break up with you boyfriend!!!! a boyfriend who loves his girlfriend will do the followings of loving her,and respecting her. when a guy that you are dating is telling you what to do now and say you don't do what he tells you more than likely he getts angry,throws a fit,calls you names,or gets physical with you to hurt you.and think about this your not even married to him and how would it be if you were? honey it shouldn't be a power thing in relationship,find someone that will be good to you.it will only get worse for you has time goes by and i think its already been a concern with you .good luck!
2007-05-28 01:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
demanding in what way? If he's unreasonable, irrational, or goes on crazy tirades then you may have a problem. Lastly, is his fault/problem a permanent problem or something that can be changed? Weigh that with how much you love him and the answer will be there.
2007-05-28 00:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by TheWanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not ending ur relationship means getting married... so if u are actually planning on getting married u shud be able to tell him if u dont like sumthing he does
2007-05-28 00:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋