I really like... maybe even love.. .this girl for over a year.. I know it is wrong and I should not even think about it... b/c she is in a relationship that is about 8 years. I dont know what to do.. I mean I think about her all day long.. I just cant stop thinking about her... I want to be with her all day.. although I barely see her... I play out in my head what I am going to tell her... like one day I had these pictures in my laptop of her.. and she saw them and she said... " I am so ugly" .... I froze I wanted to tell her that she was the most beautiful person in the whole world, and that I would love to just melt watching her. But guess what I said.... NOTHING... NOTHING came out... I guess I am intimitated by other dude. I hear she gets treated wrong... and I just wish I could rescue her from that.. but I just dont know what to do.. my mind tells me leave taht alone.. but my heart just wont let me .....
2007-05-27 17:29:59 · 9 answers · asked by Ask Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she likes me back.. I mean I get these mixed mesgs. I catch her every once in a while glancing at me... I know she wanted another answer from me.. when she saw her pictures... she tries to touch me everytime she can..SHe invited me to her home, when her dude was not there... nothing happened.. but I wish it did...
I usually see her when she is working.. and sometimes she ignores... I dont know if it is b/c she is really working or just really does not like me..
when I talk to her alone.. she smiles differently ... i mean I think.. I dont know .. really if she likes me back..
I used to give her rides home... but I think her dude told her to stop... and now she tells me she prefers to walk home..
For her bday.. I had a custom made cake for.. with her favorite artifact.. it was awesome.. she was happy until the other came in the room.. after that she did not even speak to me.. like if I was not there...
2007-05-27 17:34:16 · update #1
I really love this girl.. she is all I think about.. help me.. I wish I never even knew her..
All the songs on the radio.. fit the perfect description of what I feel for her..
I wish I had the guts to talk to her and tell her flat out... that I love her.. and wish to be with her and make her happy for the rest of her life.
I even lost 30lbs.. and for the looks of it.. I will probably lose more.
Please tell me what to do .... I am going crazy..
I sometimes call her home.. just to hear her .... and hang up right away..
she has my number.. but never calls me...
2007-05-27 17:38:57 · update #2
if you are going to tell me to leave her... tell me how to tell my heart to leave her.. and ... TELL ME>>> I wanna FALL OUT OF LOVE WITH HER!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-27 17:42:31 · update #3
Stay away from her obviously she is in a relationship taht has been working out forget about her.
2007-05-28 03:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by beauty_tells_all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Women love a man who is not afraid to take the lead and take control of the situation. What would you tell your best friend to do?
Tell her you think she's beautiful and that her boyfriend had better know how lucky he is to have her, and that if you ever catch him treating her wrong you will just have to sweep her off her feet, away from him and into your arms.
I should have been a guy.
2007-06-04 23:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by SingleMomE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you need to leave this girl along. if she with someone for 8 years regardless of how you think it is going
should tell you that she not instersted in you, maybe as a friend
but if you are looking for something else you may be the one
that get hurt. you need to move on and find someone that
will want to be with you and only you. don't continue to waste
your time with something that might never be any thing . trust
me life is to short to be unhappy.
2007-05-28 00:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like shes just as confused as you, your both giving mixed signals.please re read you ?? from our point of view. i think you going to have to brave up and next time your put in a position DO SOMETHING or SAY SOMETHING.you will know either way and can either start happiness together or start the healing process one day at a time like the rest of us. good luck to u
2007-06-04 21:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm here to help! ok...So she has a bf....And you like the girl! JUST GO AND TELL THE GIRL YOU LIKE HER! Thats the only way she'll know! The worse is that she won't like you back....Don't worry there is more girls out in the world so don't be crushed if she doesn't like YOU!
2007-05-28 00:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* i would say ask her about feelings for you and other guy but that may ruin friendship wow this is something but if u really LOVE her u could take a chance... but risk seeing her u cant always get what u want u get what u need if she's a friend a good one that might be what u need but if u want a friend and lover that what u want...
2007-05-28 00:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sourfacekid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would find another girl. And see if she gets as jeliouse as your are. And go on double dates, eventully she will crack and have to brake up with the other guy! SO PLAY HARD TO GET!
2007-05-28 10:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by Makena O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well idk what to say. i can tell u really care for her but what are the signs she gives you? Does she hint to more than a friendship?Its hard i understand but you need to see and ask this girl what she really wants. If the guy is bad help her see it and also help her see u r the one that truly cares for her.
2007-05-28 00:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then do what you want and get it over with. Quit moaning about it.
2007-05-28 10:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋