Do you ever get lonely?

Question

Maybe it's just because my days are empty...I do nothing but read, mess on the computer, watch tv, or sleep. And I tell myself that this is my vacation time, that I messed up in school last semester because I just didn't want to do anything and this summer it is to get it out of my system for a while...but I dunno. I feel emo and like I want to write heartbreaking music and just do pages and pages of emotional blogging.

I would have been just FINE if he hadn't have kissed me. And gave me hope that one day we might be 'right' for each other. And now that he's been able to....he hasn't called me or anything. I know it's still early to be...just pushing that thought away, but I'd just like to know how he is doing. But anyway, that is the cause of my sudden feeling of lonliness because I miss him.

Do you ever feel like maybe there is just an odd number of people in the world and you are just the odd one out and are destined to be alone? I know I'm young and all but sometimes I wonder..

Answer 1

There's people just like you, in all shape, sizes and ages. I know. I'm one too.

Keep writing your poetry to get the feelings off you, and keep going. You need to set goals about what you really want, and then put them to work. That will keep you from brooding like this.

I am older and have children, but I am divorced and living in a new town. I work a lot and it's hard to find even a temporary solution. I will concentrate on what I have to do to move on. Hopefully there will be someone found when I move.

Peace.

Answer 2

Yeah, definitely. In a way I'm just like you, missing someone, just do pointless stuff with my computer, watch the TV or just sleep the entire day off. I do feel that I'm jsut destenied to be alone for the rest of my life. No girl's gonna go out with a lame guy like me.

But you know, this kind of things is very hard to tell. We're still young with many years to go before we're too old to get married and anything can happen. It may not be that guy who kissed you, it may be someone you haven't met yet. We can't read destiny and we have to live and move on without worrying too much about the future.

But you're not some odd ones who feels this way. I know I do too, and many others out there who feels the way you do right now.

Answer 3

I do, quite often. The other night I just got this stab of loneliness that cut so deep that I felt physical pain. You just...gotta keep on going. It hurts to be alone, but it won't kill you. And you just gotta have faith that you won't always be alone like that. There IS someone out there for you...just because you are young doesn't mean the search is over. Let them find you, they are looking.

Answer 4

I feel lonely all the time, even though I am with someone. It sucks that he is busy with work, or when he is not busy, he works out and hang out with his friends. I am usually at home with my family, if not at his place in his room watching t.v. or working on sudoku or whatever to keep myself busy. He tells him that he know sthat he has not been the best boyfriend lately and I understand because his work is comission based and he barely signs anyone up. He can meet up with 10 clients and still not sign one up.

But I don't know, I try to let it not get to me, but I can't help it, but in a way, we always spend one day out of teh week together, but even then, I don't get the whole day with him and it annoys the crap out of me.

But yea, to answer your question, Yes and it is normal to feel lonely, whether you have someone or not. Strange isn't it?

Answer 5

holy moly, i feel the exact same as you do at this moment (except for the guy thing). man, and it sucks terribly. but i'm just tryina push on through life.

Answer 6

yes. but i try not to keep being lonly and call up a friend or family. you should try that.

Answer 7

yeah i do when i feel like my bf not listening