I had a dream that i was really close to my boyfriend and we were hugging and almost kissing and in each others arms and stuff and it felt really nice.
In real life i only see him once a week and we haven't got to the stage of hugging yet seeing as hes my 2nd bf ever and i am shy and not good at inniciating something like that. I think i want to hug and stuff but so that it feel completley natural. MY first kiss with my first bf keeps coming bak to me in my mind because it felt so awkward and sloppy anbd im afraid with my new bf i'll be holding bak on the intimacy. Like i wont be good enough
any advice or views on my dream welcome :)
2007-05-27 17:01:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first bf is always the test dummy. Sometimes we get attached because that was the person we opened up to,...we allowed our intimacy to come out with another. The second guy is always the scare. Oh God will it be as awkward as the first guy. But it is a little easier since you have been there before. I understand about being shy because I once was as well, but I think that if you take your time and slowly began to show interest of intimacy, he will catch on and you guys will be hugged up in no time.
2007-05-27 17:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by from_me_to_you 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure.. I had a dream formerly wherein I had deja vu with regards to a similar dream. interior the dream I unexpectedly felt like I had dreamed it formerly and then I grew to grow to be conscious i grow to be dreaming which grow to be much extra insane! I nevertheless went throughout the time of the dream yet I knew each and every thing that grow to be going to take place formerly it did because of the fact i might desire to remember dreaming it formerly.. then i presumed I woke up yet I wasn't wide awake fairly i grow to be nevertheless snoozing, I purely stopped being conscious.. and that i dreamed that i grow to be questioning approximately my dream deja vu, and targets interior targets and what i might do when I woke up.. then i individually woke up and that i grow to be perplexed... lol
2016-10-08 23:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never forget your first love, first kiss, first anything, but its not a good idea to compare, your past boyfriend to your new boyfriend. Your in new territory, and theres some adventuring to do. Just be yourself. What happened in the past, just leave in the past. move foward to the future. memories lives in the past. New things in life is the future.
Don't live your life based on your experiences from the past. Just learn from your mistakes.You will never be able to move on if your constantly living in the past.
2007-05-27 17:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you think about during the day especially if you are obsessed with a particular thought, that is usually what you dream about at night. It is in your subconscious, and therefore you dream about it.
2007-05-27 17:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the sloppy bad kiss with your old boyfriend wasn't you, maybe it was him. I say just give it a try and go for it.
2007-05-27 17:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you want to hug him and theres nothing wrong with that go ahead give him a hug i,m sure he won,t mind
2007-05-27 17:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl you better make a move before he makes a move and breaks up with you
2007-05-27 17:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could come true. i mean, you just have to shiw hiw much you love your bf.
2007-05-27 17:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you aren't "good enough", hopefully your man can teach you what he likes.
That's how relationships work.
2007-05-27 17:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
u should just go for it other wise he will find another girl
2007-05-27 17:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by daytona girl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋