the gurl i love just broke up..she said she had some problems with the other guy..but when i asked her bout a new bf , she said she dun wan it nomore...i love her alot...she means alot to me..i wan her as my gf...she stays overseas..how do make her interested in me only and not get involved with others.i wan her to be mine..how do i win her heart
2007-05-27 16:52:11 · 11 answers · asked by fight for the right to love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately you can't "make" someone like you, they either do or they don't. I know that isn't the answer you wanted to hear but it's true.
2007-05-27 16:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by TALLcoolone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone do anything. If you can give up on expectations and be prepared to be the ear and shoulder, great. But if you have "hidden agendas" such as procuring her love and admiration, then seriously think about things. There is nothing more precious than true friendship and love in this world. When we look for something other that and with certain expectations then we are setting ourselves up for grave disappointment. Expectations = premediated resentment. Might not like it but it's as true as cause and effect.
2007-05-27 16:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by OP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow and steady wins the race. Send her letters about once a week for a while, then more often. Just friends to start. Maybe you can make love grow; start with offering friendship.
2007-05-27 16:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1...You cant make her love you....also, if she just broke up chances are she's going to need her time to heal and sort through the disaster of the last relationship she was in...give her time. Just let her kno that you're there for her. Tell her straight up that you would love to help her heal and show her that theres real men still out there that want to love her......when SHE'S ready. If you feel like you cant wait it wasnt really love was it?
2007-05-27 16:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To win her heart if possible.. is to be nice, kind and caring.. and always there for her.. My man did it for me.. he was there for me when i was a my worst in another country.. and we were only friends with no thought of dating.. but he was just too nice to let go.. be the same and it may take a little time but really.. it works~
2007-05-27 16:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by neogiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER try to make her do anything. It doesn't show you in a good light. Perhas she doesn't have an interest in you. If not, move on. Find someone else. She is not a piece of property, that you make "yours." She's a human.
Move on. Let Go.
2007-05-27 16:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her lots of flowers. Looootttttttttsssssss of flower. Call her often and express your feelings for her. Be her friend first. Get to know what makes her tick and then go from there. She will get the message.
2007-05-27 16:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by grouki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold it there Romeo. If she isn't interested don't keep bugging her. That will only drive her further away. Maybe you should try and stay friends with her. Or date someone new. I wish you luck though.
2007-05-27 16:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by silverboy470 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off: you cant MAKE anoyone LOVE you.
why dont you let her see you in a new light. get out of the friend category. make yourself an option. flirt.
2007-05-27 16:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by hairspray queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and tell her that if she ever needs anyone to talk to you'll always be there for her. just talk to her and make her laugh but don't move to quick. let her come to you and try not to overdue it. well hope this helps good luck!!
2007-05-27 16:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by tubagirl1chair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋