To the straight women of the world............................................................................

Question

What physical apperence do women like most? Skinny, average, slight muscle defonition, body builder?
I heard that women dont really care bout muscles or a tummy, as long as he's not fat.

Answer 1

Muscles, but not body builder. I don't go for fat men.

Answer 2

I'm 5'9 and I weigh 145 pounds , So i like a man that's tall. I do like body builder men. I also like a man that's just tall and built nice with a few muscles. Most of all the body does not matter so much as the man's personality and how he treats me. Of course I do not like a big fat man or a skinny bony man either. Average is good to. I don't care for a man with a big fat belly. I can be good friends with guys of all shapes. But to be seriously involved with a man. Yes he has to make me feel good when I see him also. Since he wants me to look good for him. I like a guy to look nice as well. thank you and God Bless you also.

Answer 3

It truly is relative...Everyone has their own idea of what is attractive to them but in all honesty, when you like someone, you like their character, their persoanlity, everything it is that makes them them and when you do...you don;t care if they have a few extra pounds or a few less pounds. Sure, we would all be lying if we didn't say that a toned muscular build is nice to look at but that is where it ends when you cross the line of looking and caring about someone. You might be attracted to someone that is physically fit at first sight but it has nothing to do with their character. Now that might not make sense to someone younger because when you are young you have ideals and not the life experience to know that looks and character dont go hand in hand. Young people look at catching the "ideal" good looking guy or girl for tht matter as a trophy for lack of a better word but they somehow feel that if they are with someone that the rest of the world finds appealing that it reflects on how appealing they themselves are. That is just my opinion and I am sure you will get many varied responses but I honestly beleive that character is much more attractive than physical appearance in the long haul.

Answer 4

Well, I will explain it to you. Men that are skinny like this:
http://www.music.mcgill.ca/~benjamin/misterpenguin/uploaded_images/Eric_70s-750012.jpg

are very unlikely to get a good girlfriend first. To us women they are kind of considered the weaker species of men. We just think that, naturally I suppose.

Average men like this:
http://www.singeruniverse.com/jessemccartney.jpg

Are something that a girl will like typically. Of course, you have to have to have the right face, grooming, manners, ect. because body isn't everything a woman looks for, but it is a good portion of it for most women.

Alright slight muscle definition:
http://www.facade.com/celebrity/photo/Brad_Pitt.jpg

That is EXTRMELY hot to the majority of U.S. women. I think it is really super hot. As long as they aren't complete and total body builders and I will get to that in just a second. But if that is what you mean by slight muscle definition, then definitely hot.

body builder:
http://weeklyecho.com/blog/media/1/20061027-bodybuilder2.jpg

http://www.bodybuilder-photos.com/galleries/2003/2003-11_NAC_Int_Deutsche_Meisterschaft/images/bodybuilder_IMG_1410.jpg

that is kind of weird. it feels uncomfortable for the girl most times. i mean like this is fine:
http://dave.antidisinformation.com/blogpics/gay-abercrombie.jpg

that is actually my favorite kind of body. But, those body builders are kind of sick. It is just over doing it.

Finally, I don't think anyone likes an extremely fat man. I am sorry, but it is true. They are hard to be with for most slender or average or even chubby women. And it is just awful because their eating habits and stuff must also be terible. This is NOt okay:
http://www.bobanddan.net/images/fanSubmitted/fatguy.jpg

or aything else close to that. sry for those kinda ppl but you should really work out. Well, I hope I helped you out!

Answer 5

I like lean guys, like footballers (soccer players) but not the skinny ones, I like the bodies where it's lean muscle but also a bit of built muscle. My ideal body in a guy:

http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/41378000/jpg/_41378202_cc9.jpg

Answer 6

You know what's fine, is I liked toned tall guys, not too muscular, not too skinny but definitely in shape and at least 5'10" or taller. Well when I met my bf I fell for his personality, he is my height 5'7", stocky build and wasn't in shape when we met, he is now. But just to answer your question, everyone has a different idea what is sexy, as long as you are happy enough that is all that matters.

Answer 7

Big muscles are YUK abd stomach doesn't have to be defined, just not a belly.
Smile, attitude, and normal body work if you treat her like a queen. That outshines everything else. Everyone likes to be around someone who makes them feel good! ;)

Answer 8

Women as a whole like all types. Even men with more to love! Most women have a personal type they prefer, but don't get hung up on it. Personally, I like anything except a guy that's too skinny! He can't be skinnier than me!

Answer 9

I'd say average. Not too skinny, but not fat! And a little muscle, but not a wholeeee bunch lol.

Answer 10

muscle deffinition is very attractive. like you got it but don't care much to show it. guys who show off what they have a lot of = very unnatractive and get girls who r really shallow.

like just someone you can cuddle with. not some hard edged guy with muscles everywhere. thats where personalty comes in.