Okey dokey. I have been seeing this guy for 8 months now, but we have had a lot of problems. We both have been cheated on by our previous partners, and it definetly shows through in our relationship.
He has a hard time letting me get close to him, and showing affection. I have a hard time trusting him, I think everything that comes out of his mouth is a lie.
Now, what do you think it means when two people agree to go to couples counseling? Do you think it means that they are really committed to one another? Would a couple who wasn't really into each other go to couples counseling together?
Sorry if this seems wierd. I am just trying to understand the significance of us going to couples counseling, and what it means about us. I have never liked someone enough to really try to work things out with them, especially when they have been as serious as our problems.
2007-05-27 15:58:40 · 3 answers · asked by Whishkey Bottom. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you two didn't want your relationship to last, you wouldn't be investing time in counseling sessions. You have a fighting chance to make it if you seek help! Definitely go for it!
2007-05-27 16:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kari Grace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means a lot less then you want. Since the two of you are only dating, there can be no real commitments coming out of the counseling. That and counseling really doesn't work anyway. Your relationship is broken from the start, since you are both broken spirits. If you both had met after seeing someone and fixing what is wrong with you, then it might mean something.
Good luck anyway
2007-05-27 23:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not work for everyone. In fact it does not work for most people!!!
2007-05-27 23:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋