If you're bi sexual but don't have sex all the way through life but still have romantic relationships will you still go to hell?
I'm bi. But I plan on NEVER having sex with either gender.
So if I have relationships with males and females but never have any type of sexual relations with either will I be sent to hell after death on earth?
2007-05-27 15:50:03 · 15 answers · asked by skinnyboy1989 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No, you get to go to both.
2007-05-27 15:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Obviously people are attracted to their own sex at times or even throughout their lives. But that is different to saying they are born that way. The science on that is very contradictory and unsubstantiated. As for going to heaven or hell. It depends on your relationship with God as to what happens to you. Nobody can judge you, only God has that authority. There are brief statements in the Bible which can be brought up to make you aware of this being sin. But without knowing you- I can only ask you why you feel you are bi? Why did this happen? Have you seen a lot of pornography? Did your parents divorce? Did you feel rejected by your father or mother? Did you get seduced by a man or woman? Have you been verbally or physically attacked by a man, or known of it? Have you found comfort being with a woman and it developed sexually? Or perhaps you have been in bed with both a man and woman? All these - and many others- can be first instances which start when somebody begins to feel attracted to the same sex. I ask you to think though what you are doing through. You are important to God. Your life is precious and He does have a plan for it. You are not just a piece of meat or a citizen or an organ donor. You matter. That is the central thread of Biblical Christianity and because you matter what you say think and do, all matter to God. Don't ask Him to change you - ask Him to help you to be the person He has planned you to be. It is not the same thing as changing, it is freeing. Perhaps you are attracted to women, not only because you have a need for their love but because you have more love to share than many others. Don't let it get confused with sexual feelings. If you are a Christian you know God wants us all to be pure in our lives and conduct.
2016-04-01 00:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody is automatically sent to hell for their sexual orientation, I don't think. It is what is in a person's heart that determines where they go. If a person's heart is full of love and forgiveness and all those good things, they should be in a peaceful place after death. This is why Jesus tells everyone to love others and have light and love on the inside of you.
2007-05-27 16:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being bi sexual doesnt condemn you to hell. The only way to get to heaven is through believing and following Jesus. We are all sinners....even if we are believers. There is no sin that you can commit or mistake that you can make that is not covered by the blood of Christ.
2007-05-27 15:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am Bi and I am Christian. I'm not going to hell because I trust God to fulfill his promises. He said that if I believe in Jesus Christ and trust him I will be called one of his sons. And that's what I do. I have had sex with both males and females. I like to have sex with certain people. I was never married. And yet I'm going to heaven because I trust God. You know that the Fundy Christians write me often! lol
2007-05-27 15:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You only have one life. Why waste it? Sex is perfectly natural with either sex and it is great. Enjoy yourself. Don't worry about hell. Didn't Christ say to love your neighbour as yourself? He didn't specify the sex of the neighbour. In any case there are lots of abominations in the Bible, homosexuality is only one of the, You will go to hell for eating lobsters and shrimp or wearing poly-cotton shirts according to Leviticus. If you are going anyway, a bit of sex isn't going to make it worse.
2007-05-27 15:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by tentofield 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, is (or was) in John's Gospel that gays and drunks wont go to heaven.
You can quit, man. Look at Paul's example, big killer just quit cold turkey and started helping Christ.
2007-05-27 16:12:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't go to hell.
Or at least I don't think you will. Or should.
That would be awful if you went to hell just for being bi.
2007-05-27 15:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by mariamaria 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is up to any of us to say. That is between you and God. For the record, I refuse to believe that a good person who gives of themselves to causes and their community and is nothing but good to other people would be condemned solely for who they are sexually attracted to.
2007-05-27 15:55:07 · answer #9 · answered by angelfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The qualifications for going to hell is rejection of Jesus Christ.
2007-05-27 15:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as hell, it doesn't exist. So if that's the reason you never plan on having sex with either gender, that's really sad.
Honestly, you sound more like you are asexual than bisexual.
2007-05-27 15:53:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋