women say they want a nice, funny, intelligent, honest guy, and I think iam all those things, but women wont give me the time of day. Why is that? Im not like John Merrick or anything.
2007-05-27 15:18:47 · 11 answers · asked by last nice guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because women say one thing but mean something else. What they really want is the ******* that will treat them like crap. They seem to need drama in their life or they aren't happy. You can say I'm wrong but look around you'll see I'm right.
2007-05-27 15:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion humans should be classified into three categories - Men, Women the men can understand, and the majority, Women the men CANT understand. Basically, after they get hurt enough, they wont want a prick anymore, they'll be looking for a person to really love them. The only reason I can think of why a girl likes a total *** would just be the excitement.
2007-05-27 15:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by KFree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's something else. If you've got a certain vibe coming off you, like you're shy or whatever, or on the other hand arrogant, then that's probably it.
And yes, we do want those features. I've got a crush on a dear friend of mine who's not the best looking guy out there, but he makes me laugh and he can take my sarcasm, he doesn't lie to me, keeps me updated to what he's doing (i.e. he called to say he was going to FL for a few days), etc. I'm still working up the courage to ask him about relationships. :)
Don't worry, there'll be a lady right for you.
2007-05-27 15:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... i'm a girl.. and I still dont get girls.... different girls want different things.... like, I dont relaly go for the merit scholar, teacher's pet, sweet, shy, innocent guy.... I presonally prefer, smart but not obnoxiously smart, kind but not trying to buy me stuff all the time because that gets annoying, funny but not in a mean way, athletic (but if they are trying really hard then that's okay too...... : ) I personally prefer dancers to football players... ) honest even if they hate what i'm wearing, and accepting... because i dont do bad things and im not fat... but hey... I will not accept him taking me to some fancy Italian restaurant when we could have gone to starbucks and just talked...so yeah... just be your self and that's all I can say... there has gotta be a girl who likes what you have to offer somewhere.
2007-05-28 01:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by sarahandherboo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth every girl has a list of all the things they want a guy to be, but in reality most girls don't stick to the list. Most girls don't know what they want, and if they did they wouldn't know what to do with him once they have it. So don't worry about it too much, just be yourself and sooner or later someone out there will see what a great catch you are. I tell you this out of personal experience, i dated a guy who was everything i wanted, but as it turned out i got bored because i ended up feeling like there was no spontaneity and it felt like there was nothing new for me to find out about him. So hang in there sunshine all will come in due time.
2007-05-27 15:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by happygrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're looking for a husband/soul mate...then YES that's what they want.
If they're looking for a fling, hook-up, etc...then NO, they're looking for someone to tell them all the things a girl wants to hear...you're beautiful....yada yada...also temporary girls tend to like the "bad boy". Whatever they're type in their dating years will likely be the exact opposite of what they married.
I was attracted to the bad boy in high school and also they tended to be shorter than me (5'6"). When I met my husband he was the bad boy and 6'3". When I finished my "bad girl" stage, I almost dumped him...but he almost instantly transformed into this wonderful, nice, funny, and honest man! He's the man of my dreams!
2007-05-27 15:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah another one of life's great mysteries revealed. but i've discovered that women are life's biggest contradiction. they say one thing and then do something entirely different, i think they do it just to mess with us guys' heads. whats worse, they know it works really really well. im starting to think its encoded into their DNA at birth. that or they're all aliens or something. i dont know what the deal is, if someone has the answer i'd sure like to know too. im sick of it myself. maybe they would be kind enough to divulge this information to us, doubtful though.
2007-05-27 15:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do they know you're nice, funny, intelligent, and honest? You have to put yourself out.
2007-05-27 15:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by sparklycrayons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to ask yourself these questions: when you are around those girls do you make them laugh, are you sensative..... because there is this boy that i know at school and at first i would never go out with him, i mean he didn't really look fine but he didn't really look ugly ~ he did a little at first, but he was so funny.... i started to like being around him in his presence... but he dosn't know it. so maby there is a girl that likes you but is too scared its your personality that matters..... TRUST ME I KNOW ..... you have a secrete admirer....
2007-05-27 15:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because you are dealing with GIRLS. Trust me real WOMAN will apreciate everything about you but they are usually over 21 and have their lives together.
2007-05-27 15:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋