Would an older man be interested in a much younger woman?

Question

I'm 22 and I'm very interested in much older men. The problem is that I look really young for my age and am not very experienced with men anyway. I think these things scare older men away. Would an older man be interested in someone like me? What kinds of things could I do to attract an older man?

Some people think younger women like older men because of their money but I would like an older man even if he was poor! I just like the more mature character traits that older men tend to have.

I have had a relationship with someone my age but I was very unhappy in it.

I can't really explain why I like older men so much, but it mostly has to do with the fact that they're usually more mature, more experienced, and might be more stable. I could care less about their money though because I'd love him even if he was poor. I don't care much about looks either. I know this might sound strange to some people but this is just how I feel.

There is an older man who I know is single and I'm very attracted to him but I don't know how he feels. He talks to me alot and we have good conversations but I don't think he sees me in that way at all. I'm very mature for my age but look extremely young... :(

By the way, I'd go for guys anywhere from 30 to maybe even 60.

Answer 1

Heck yeah some of us do where are you located? LOL! Seriously it depends on the guy. Some just want a friend with benefits and some will want more.

Answer 2

Most humans are attracted to other humans who look fertile and like they'd have good genes. That means older men find younger women more physically attractive, though they might not find them compatible life partners.

Answer 3

hmmm... fascinating. You say 'much' older... how much older? I'm thinking that perhaps the question you should be asking yourself is why particularly older men?
What someone said about older men living for younger women... yeah! An older man's dream come true to have a younger woman attracted to him! It's not at all difficult.
But I come back to the question of why particularly older men? Because if you are having trouble attracting an older man - that implies that you are not comfortable around them so you don't send them the signals that you are open to being with them. That may not be the case, but that's the first thing that came to mind as I read your post.
Do you date at all? Someone in your age range? Or you won't even consider them unless they are at least of a certain age? I don't know - I just can't get past the question, Why?

Answer 4

I like a man who is 14 years older than me and we've been having a relationship with no commitment.., It sucks because I adore him!!!
I want something more, but he is not in the same place as me... I have been married and separated and didn't expect to like someone so soon after and certainly not someone who was so much older, but we just clicked in a strange way!!!
I like the older ones too and there's no reason why these sorts of relationships can't work if both of you feel the same and connect on a good level...
Take a punt at it, ask him out, see where it goes!!! The worst that can happen is he'll say no, but what have you lost???

Answer 5

As long as you dont get lured to the car with candy its alright :P Its not uncommon for females to think this, while younger people are more outgoing and adventurous girls tend to crave that maturity and stability of an older man.

My friend wanted the same thing, but then she grew up a bit herself and realised she was still young at heart :) Also yes older men like younger woman because they get to relive their younger years (so to speak ^^)

Answer 6

Ok... I've read the answers to your question !!!
Some of them are actually very comical !!!
My wife is 13 years young than I am..... but, I
can honestly say that I didn't believe her just
because her knowledge and her maturity.......
which it's a known fact that women mature
sooner than men.
IF there should be a 'gentleman' whom strikes
your fancy, then you might have to make the
'hint' and see if he'll take the bait.... if not, then
find another.
As for 'perverts' liking younger women , yes,
it's true...... but mostly because for some of
of the old perverts , it allows them to some
what feel younger, more alive...... AND , many
of the younger girls don't have the attitude or
baggage that many of the older women have.

Answer 7

That is alll well and good........But most "older" Men are looking for a NANNY and a Place to NEST. (They have already had their LOVE and Lost)......And sewed there wild Oats. Most are Worn Out Also. USED UP, I THINK IS WHAT YOU CALL IT! ( NO Offence Men)

Answer 8

Are you kidding? If the 'older man' had any idea how you felt, he would probably get so excited, he'd keel over of a heart attack!!

Older men LIVE for younger women. Sad, but true. It's called, "Midlife Crisis."

Answer 9

sure. I think older men would be interested in you.

Answer 10

I'm 17, male. U might think why the hick should I consider an answer of an imature boy. but u gotta believe me. I lived in many different countries. Experienced many different cultures. I can tell u that older men (at least mostly) like younger girls because they get the feeling of they r in control. Males, we like to feel that we are the boss. To us, younger women seem very unexperienced and easy to be controlled. We want to commander, telling younger women what to do and what not to. Most older man believe that younger women r easy to command than older woman. Trust me, go for a younger man. He might be imature and a little stupid, at least he will love you foreal. not take an adventage of you.
I am not saying that this is always the case with older men who like younger girls but all i am saying is mostly. Based on what I saw in USA, Egypt, Syria, German, Brazil, Sudan, India, and England.