Ok just a month ago my ex broke up with me after almost a year, im getting alot better now and i seem to be happier when im talking to other guys, there is this one guy who likes me and i like him to, he is good friends with another guy that likes me and thinks i like him, so if anything does happen i have no idea how im gonna tell him i like his best friend! This guy i like is really sweet, but he always brings up the topic of sex and i have only known him for a little while, he always says sweet things to me and says he's not a player or anything but i have second thoughts! So do you think he likes me or just wants me for sex???
2007-05-27 13:53:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a simple way to find out. Don't have sex with him. If he drops you, you'll know that was all he wanted.
2007-05-27 13:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mother Amethyst 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off I would set the record straight with this guy that thinks you like him. It would be unfair for you to continue to let him think that you do...you would be better off letting him know now before anything happens with the guy you really like. Secondly, if you have only known this guy for a brief period and he is already talking sex, I would be a bit cautious. I don't think sex talk is appropriate when you've only known eachother for a short while. I would definately not give in at this point....continue to get to know him before you get intimate, if he runs for the hills after a few weeks or even a month of waiting around then you know that was all he was after....if he sticks it out and really seems interested in getting to know you, then you may just have something there! Good luck to you dear...................
2007-05-27 21:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by RetroChick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk of sex in a short time? Honey, you really seem like you've gotten better. You have your instincts and that's a good thing. Follow them.
I personally don't care for guys who talk about sex before all the cards are layed out on the table. It's disrespectful! The very fact that it made you uncomfortable speaks for itself.
2007-05-27 21:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by Val 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he only wants you for sex. It is as ovbious as the huge zit you get on your nose just before an important date.
trust me I am a guy I know how some of the low life jerks think who give all single guys a bad name.
If it doesn't work out between the two of you, IM me LOL
JUST KIDDING
2007-05-27 21:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by maddog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might like you O.K., but I guarantee he wants you for SEX! Why not be one of the few, strong girls who saves it for their husbands! When you have sex with a guy , you are also having sex with all the partners they have ever had. That is why there is an increase in Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) now!
2007-05-27 20:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is his game for sure. He talks he isn't a player, but thats exactly how he talks, like a player. Steer clear of him, if his intentions, aren't yours, or as someone else here had said, go with your gut on it, it won't fail you most times.
2007-05-27 21:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by home_grown_outlaw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it the first guy or the second guy? Matter of fact.. sounds to me like they all want sex... but that wouldnt be un-natural would it?
2007-05-27 20:58:40 · answer #7 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea probably because if he just talking about sex hes not looking for a relationship. Relationship cant be based on just the physical stuff you should be able to talk to him about anything
GOOD LUCK!!
2007-05-27 20:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by Liz E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's not enough to base this on. If he says he's not a player that doesn't mean anything! if he truly likes you and thinks you're sexy then why would he stray?
2007-05-27 20:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by 33ea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has to tell you he's not a player... that's not a good sign. Take it from me, a fellow guy.
2007-05-27 20:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by brandonedbishop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋