Can you believe that? Does this God really want to save people from hell? Girls is my only weakness although I'm 22 and still a virgin for God but I just can't hold it anymore. Anyway if He wanted me to go to heaven He'd take a part off my body untill marriage or sex before marriage wouldn't be a sin. I just can't understand God, damn heaven isn't free like many christians make it seems like. This price is highhhh. No sex before marriage???
2007-05-27 13:41:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
get yourself a nice girlfriend and have sex.
2007-05-27 13:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Loathing 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
God isn't out to get guys who have sexual urges. I don't want to assume, but perhaps you are in a habit of masturbation which would make you want to transfer those orgasms to a woman. Well, masturbation is a sin, too. God doesn't want to prevent pregnancies; he wants to prevent you from having empty relationships.
It's normal to have sexual urges. People your age should also be thinking about marriage very seriously (aka dating). You should start dating. But like one person said, don't marry because of sex. Marry because you both have a genuine attraction to each other. You should love the woman completely. It will take a lot of time to determine if you are right for someone. A few dates doesn't cut it-believe me, you'll end up getting engaged to someone who isn't compatible. You need to spend some time building relationships, and not sexually. You'll know if you are sexually attracted to someone after some time.
Sex is an important part of a healthy marriage. I don't want to hear about you having sex with a bunch of strangers. One marital partner is what God has for everyone's sex life. You should strive to find that woman, and you'll both be able to explore true sexuality together when you are married.
2007-05-29 08:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by Thardus 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, your virginity is your choice. The thing is, you say you cannot wait anymore...once you have it you are probably going to think "this is pretty awesome, but it's not THAT big of a deal" I think the people who are hung up about sex the most are virgins.
According to the bible, heaven is not free. It's a hard path if you choose to take it.
If you are having doubts in your mind, think about your religion and why you have choosen it. You don't have to be a christian for example. There are many paths in life. Not that I am trying to deconvert you, but I am just saying that you should meditate on your choices in life and see how much they really mean to you.
2007-05-27 13:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by J R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God is familiar with we've intercourse, and he made us that way. For the main suitable intercourse and marriage we are to attend. Many women human beings have not got orgasms, yet people who understand God might have a extra helpful intercourse life and marriage and the purer the extra helpful the two are. the worldwide has intercourse and divorces, is that this what you prefer? or perhaps a newborn? not solid, wait and get to understand the different individual. then once you recognize them, marry and then have the main suitable marriage and intercourse we could have right here and now. intercourse grow to be created by God, so for the main suitable intercourse, marriage and life do as God says or we get much less. With intercourse comes love, a deep love that happens in the present day. So formerly we've intercourse we are to understand the different individual. And ideally pray for the single God is familiar with is sweet for you. additionally intercourse marries the two and that they grow to be one flesh. so which you're actually not to any extent further one, yet not 2 human beings. The extra intercourse with others the extra one will become. not solid. My niece had intercourse and now a newborn, he left and she or he's on my own. Now she bounds from guy to guy, is that this what you prefer? look forward to the main suitable, God created us and tells us this so we could have the main suitable. devil says fornicate and the worldwide does, then they divorce in the event that they even marry. Heed God's warnings for the main suitable or go through like many that do not. prefer extra digital mail me for the certainty. bless you. Matthew 19:4-6 (New international version) 4"have not you examine," he replied, "that on the start the writer 'made them woman and male,'[a] 5and stated, 'subsequently a guy will go away his parents and be united to his spouse, and the two will grow to be one flesh'[b]? 6So they're now not 2, yet one. for this reason what God has joined mutually, permit guy not separate."
2016-10-08 23:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by grimon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you aware that one of the major purposes of sex is the procreation of children? Are you aware that condoms do not prevent this natural result of sexual union? Are you prepared as a 22 year old unmarried person to raise the children you father as a result of your not being able to "hold it"? Or are you just planning to talk the mother(s) into killing the children before they can be born?
2007-05-27 14:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by PaulCyp 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is your free will choice to be saved from hell, don't mess up. Go to the bible, read Proverbs, read and study about the subject and why He says no before marriage. Submit to Him and let Him give you the strength to stay clean. Pray that the lust go, let the Lord help you. Eternity is forever, this stay on earth is not.
2007-05-27 13:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by deeprnll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe whatever you want to believe, not what other's do. Sex before marriage just makes people have sex loads, and get hurt and disease and stuff, you can only lose your virginity to one person, it is the only thing you can only ever give to one person.. So at least find someone special. Marriage could be in your head, or in paper, does it matter?
2007-05-27 13:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Make sure you don't just get married to anyone because you want to have sex. That would make you very, very unhappy.
Make it sacred with someone.
Use protection.
I understand your belief system is to abstain, but as you have been coming to the conclusion of. Reality is, it's going against your natural rhythm.
As a woman, those two things that I mentioned mean alot.
Oh, and be sure she has an orgasm. (no pressure).
2007-05-27 13:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by shakalahar 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not only no sex before marriage, but no recreational sex is also a sin. I think.
It's more a personal thing to me than a religious one, anyway.
2007-05-27 13:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by pamiekins 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's just a man made "rule," it really means nothing. You can hold off if you want to, but if you're going to believe that you'll be punished for having sex outside of marriage, lol, then go ahead and keep waiting. You're only hurting yourself.
2007-05-27 13:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
God does not want you to prevent pregnancy or disease with a condom, he wants you to enjoy giving yourself completely to the person you choose to spend your married life with, the person you will accept children with....no one said this sacrifice of waiting would be easy....
2007-05-27 13:53:40 · answer #11 · answered by mago 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋