i had an ex boyfreind we had a messy break up that was kind of a misunderstandaing and both wound up getting heart broken ( 4 years ago ) recently we began speaking again. and we both expressed an interest in meeting up again. my questino is is this the best time to do so. for one, im going through an extremely difficult period in my life right now. i got pregnant and the babies father dmped me, im facing finanicail and emotional termoil and im in my 3rd trimester i might be losing my apartmetn and etc.. everything is up in the air. also im the fattest ive ever been, my skin is all broken out, i dont have a good outfit to wear if i was to meet him for coffee or something. we were just going to hang as freinds only, but should i wait until i have my **** a little more together? i know i have other things to focus on right now you dont have to tell me that part, but i mean so i dont appear so crappy to him also. i mean i am probably going to make a horrible impression anywas.
2007-05-27 13:30:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know you are going under a lot of pressure right now and you've recently got out of a relationship, but I think that you should wait until your burdens are a little lighter. Getting into a relationship right now will get very stressful and you don't know the bull*#$? you have to put up with your ex.
2007-05-27 13:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not a bad time --- the guy knows you and if he is anything like me i love pregnant ladies --- there is a glow to them that is fantastic --- have the coffee it will take your mind off your problems and let you know there is more to life than the disappointments you have suffered --- best wishes
2007-05-27 20:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with meeting just to talk it will get your mind off things
2007-05-27 20:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋