I think that every guy as a type of girl that fits there physical and intellectuel need. I have been in bars, not being a bar kind of guy and I did have fun during that time and a few days after; I say a few days after because I wasn't ready for a relationship of any kind so I didn't show interest.
This got me thinking, about what is the right girl for me if none of them interested me. If I could find a female copy of me, I would have found my soulmate. But what is the fun in that?
Right now theres a girl I really like, I think she is the sexiest girl I have been in contact whit. Not that she is a model or a size double! It's just that I want to know her and be whit her. Is that love? I don't know.
It as been a while since I have not felt this attracted to a girl.
That made me think. For me, love is something that you deal whit day by day and if 2 person can't be able to forgive and forget mistakes they do then they are not made for each other because no ones is perfect!!
2007-05-27 13:22:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, that dictionary definition is really helpful!
I don't believe in love at first sight. There can be attraction, and a connection, but love takes time.
If you want to get to know this girl and spend time with her, that's a good sign. If, in time, when you know her, and her faults, and you still want to spend time with her, and be with her, then that might be love.
I agree that love is being able to forgive and forget mistakes, because no one's perfect. Which makes me wonder why you think there's a perfect person out there for you. All this garbage that people feed the masses about 'soulmates' is just crap... love isn't perfect, and love isn't effortless. There is no perfect person out there for you.
There are people out there, and some of them you'll get along with, others you won't. If there's a person you care about, and want to be with, and maybe even love, you'll still have to work at it. Because, as you said, no one is perfect. People make mistakes.
So give up that idea of a soulmate, spend some time with this girl, get to know her and find out if you care about her. Only you can answer if you love her.
2007-05-27 13:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Stiggy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is love, baby don hurt me, dont hurt me, no more *disco dances*.
Yes usually that is, the best girls arnt models. Models are too much maintanance anyway (at least typical models). If you can find someone you can be happy with then thats fine.
As for what love is, i been tryin to find that out also. Fark knows
2007-05-27 20:29:52 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties
2 : warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion
3 a : the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration
4 a : unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1) : the fatherly concern of God for humankind (2) : brotherly concern for others b : a person's adoration of God
5 : a god or personification of love
6 : an amorous episode : LOVE AFFAIR
7 : the sexual embrace : COPULATION
8 : a score of zero (as in tennis)
9 capitalized, Christian Science : GOD
- at love : holding one's opponent scoreless in tennis
- in love : inspired by affection
2007-05-27 20:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard question to answer but you will know when you are in love,nobody will have to tell you nothing.
2007-05-27 20:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by babybellz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby don't hurt me. Don't hurt me no more. *Head bops to one side, and again.*
2007-05-27 21:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by j;eaojtoig;45jho;54ihu;45hujt54 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not..its a crush
2007-05-27 20:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by baby boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋