ok well i'm 14 so to let you know and theirs this really cute boy who lives accross the street from me....and i have a crush on him and really would like to go out with him and i know he likes me back cus he told me so anyways he told my friend that he'll go out wit me if i lose my virginity wit him but i don't wanna lose it yet so i'm not sure if i want to go out wit him then i ask him why do you want to go out wit out he said " cus i like you and your cut" i'm not sure if i wanna believe him so any suggestion or advice????
2007-05-27 12:43:58 · 19 answers · asked by Brianna R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ANY guy who is simply interested in you for sex is NOT WORTH IT!!! If I were you, I wouldve already been COMPLETELY turned off by him simply by knowing that he wanted me to have sex with him to go out with me! What a LOSER!!
Take my advice... the guy you "like" does NOT like you! He simply wants to take advantage of you. Once he gets what he wants... he will leave and take your virginity with him. He will go on preying on other innocent girls and hurt MANY others along the way! PLEASE dont let yourself be one of them!!!
A guy who really DOES like you will take it slow, RESPECT the fact that you arent ready... he WONT pressure you, he WONT make you feel "bad" for NOT having sex w/ him and he will treat you nicely, lovingly and RESPECTFULLY!!! Anyone else is NOT WORTH IT!!!
Tell him if he wants sex so bad, to go SCREW himself!!!! You are TOO young to have your virginity taken in the FIRST place.. let alone to a guy who ONLY wants that!! At LEAST lose your virginity to a guy whom you LOVE and you KNOW cares and respects you and wont be GONE the second you give him what he wants!!
If you DO have sex w/ this jerk, BELIEVE ME, you will REGRET it for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!! Once you lose your virginity.. its GONE... you can NEVER GET IT BACK!! Stay away from this creep.. there are MANY MANY MANY more fish in the sea!!
2007-05-27 12:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only will go out with you if you lose your virginity then he is not worth your time. When he said that should tell you what he is all about which is "sex" and nothing else. He might be cute and everything but he is not worth your time since he don't care about you as a person or anything. Plus, you are a little too young to go out on a date especially when you're not mature enough to know that he isn't the boy for you.
2007-05-27 19:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by deniseywalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me, do not fall for that crap. Don't go out with someone if they say they only want to if you lose your virginity to them. That's something you can never get back. Trust me. Wait!! There are plenty of boys out there that will like you for you not just for sex. If he really likes you and wants to go out with you he would respect you for wanting to wait. You are to young enjoy being young, and respect yourself if you don't nobody else will. If you do decide that you have to have this boy then go out with him for a while, make sure he is worth giving your virginity to. If you do decide to have sex, make sure you use protection, because BOYS LIE!! Remember that. ;o) Go with your heart!!
2007-05-27 19:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by amandacobble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on!
You're fourteen. Fourteen means, the same age as me.
And I would NEVER EVER do that just to date this weirdo.
He's a perv, seriously.
Why would you lose ur virginity to go out with someone? This is totally crazy.
So don't.
2007-05-27 19:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by -Tiffa- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who makes you a "deal" isn't worth it. You shouldn't just give yourself up to some jerk who decides he's all the sudden got the power. Trust me save it for some guy who respects you and not just your body, leave this guy alone , you should not have anything to do with him.
2007-05-27 19:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Wowza Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin is the only thing you have that no one can take from you and it's special and you should wait until you are ready for that and if a guy don't respect that then he isn't worthy of even being a friend
2007-05-27 19:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him if he only wants to sleep with you. When you lose your virginity, it should be with someone you love, and you shouldn't feel pressured to do it.
2007-05-27 19:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by lovefitness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real keeper, hahahaha. Sounds like he has a sales background, trying to bargan his way into your pants. 14 seems young to be lettin him hit that.
2007-05-27 19:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, don't go out with him because all he wants is your virginity. If he saids that he would only go out with you if you lost your virginity with him, well it's common sense what he wants from you.
2007-05-27 19:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by jen. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out wit him but tell him u will lose ur virginity just not now and tell him u want to wait till the time is right
2007-05-27 19:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by kmoney 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋