I'm 13 in 2 months i'll be 14. I live in OK. I don't understand why I can't get a girl to go out with me...I ask them to lunch but they say no, I ask them to movies they still say no what should I do?
2007-05-27 12:35:14 · 34 answers · asked by thundrbyrd2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you are still growing up!
2007-06-04 00:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, I know that right now probably all of your friends have girlfriends and you feel left out right? Well, I'm a girl, and I'm about the same age as you. Maybe you should try being casual about it. Girls don't like it when guys are weird around them, and it makes them feel awkward. Just have a casual conversation to start off. Then, make a move. Try saying,"I was wondering, maybe you and I could go see a movie or something. The movie "blank" sounds good, and it might be fun." If it doesn't work, the girl is obviously not interested, and don't push her. If she says no, don't act upset. It will make you seem desperate.
2007-06-04 09:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
duude, listen. You are still young. Girls in the range from 13-14 may or may not be ready to date. Don't be so up front and mature about it. Instead get a group of friends together and go on a group outing/date. it's much less akward and girls feel much more comfortable in a large group to socialize. that way if you are a creep ( not saying you are) they can bail w/out totally crushing u. Also, most girls your age aren't allowed to date. Which is another reason why a group thing is better. Good Luck !
2007-06-04 11:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by kiki<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls and guys at your age aren't mature enough to think of going to lunch or a movie as just "hanging out." Therefore, you need to disarm the ladies you ask by befriending them. You have to make sure they're comfortable with you so that your whole forward approach of just asking doesn't look desperate or have false intentions. You have to be confident as well as cool. This means while you're bold enough to ask a girl out, you have to appear as if it doesn't matter what she says, as long as you asked. And if the answer is no, you have to appear strong enough to walk away as if it's her loss, not yours. Try this: the next time you decide to ask a girl out, make sure it's not specific. Strike up a conversation about something first and slip in something like, "That's great, maybe sometime you want to talk about it over lunch? Right now I've got to go, I'm meeting up with some of my friends." You don't want to appear desperate. To you she may be the next big thing to rock your world, but she has to see that you want to get to know her first, otherwise you're just a hungry little puppy wanting to have some chow. Good luck, man.
2007-06-04 10:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... try a different approach. maybe u have a really rude or flity personality and they don't like u. and don't try to be the class clown. u could only score mexican/low life girls. no, i'm not a racist. try being deep, but not too corny. talk about stuff that doesn't revolve around u, or sports and stuff. talk about music. u can't go wrong there. build trust before u ask them out. there are a lot more tips, but i can't remember them right now... sorry!! well, make a friend that's a girl(like me!!^.^ jk) and she'll help u. make sure to be there for her and help her with guy troubles too!! even if it's stupid....
2007-05-27 12:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are to young to worry about going on dates, trust me enjoy what you can of your childhood all that stuff will come later, take time to enjoy your friends and family, it will all go by a lot faster then you think. But if you must get a date, I say just be yourself and just do simple things to let girls know you like them, maybe bring them a flower to school, or do something sweet you may get turned down but don't let it get to you, you will eventually find someone, just have fun and don't let it get you down if you get rejected. ;o) Good luck.
2007-05-27 12:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by amandacobble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt be dating in the first place. You shouldn't be worrying about girls at this age, girls are trouble. You need to focus on school, but if you insist on getting a girlfriend I suggest you ease up and don't be too strong when talking to the girls.
not to be mean , but do you shower regularly, do you brush your teeth regularly, do you have acne? these are things that will turn girls off of u.
2007-05-27 12:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by JH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have plenty of time. At this age you have a lot of guts. if you keep on being honest and asking girls out. Somebody is going to say yes. Good luck.
2007-06-04 11:51:07 · answer #8 · answered by belindashere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you must tell more about yourself. You are kinda young to be thinking about dating. I have two grown sons, and i didn't consider them to be "dating" until they were 16 +. Are you shy? Is there something about you that would make them not want to date you? Please give more details about yourself, that would help alot. Thanks, and i hope you do get to find a nice young lady to want to go out with you.
2007-05-27 12:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by tenderlovingcare77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly Dude read a book ...you will have plenty of time to worry about the ladies later on TRUST ME you dont want the drama and confusion... concentrate on school work and playing sports ..its cool to have a crush or crushes but you have plenty of time ...take it easy bro
2007-05-27 12:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by krissy t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do anything? You are young and one day you will meet the right girl to go out with. For now, enjoy your teen years with your friends.
2007-05-27 12:37:37 · answer #11 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋