My boyfriend knows I had a past relationship...he even met my ex once (a queer encounter)...but never ever has he once brought up the subject..as a matter of fact he avoids it. Is he wanting me to tell him all that happened soon or later or should i just leave it in the past.
2007-05-27 12:30:51 · 10 answers · asked by SugarPie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is avoiding it like the plauge there is probally a good reason for it. Perhaps he doesnt feel that you guys are secure enough to start discussion or he just generally thinks "the past is the past, lets live for the now".
2007-05-27 12:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just not want to know anything. I never like to know about my boyfriends' ex-girlfriends. I always subtly ask about their sexual history (to make sure they weren't with too many other girls), but other than that, I leave their past relationship in the past. Maybe your boyfriend just doesn't really care and doesn't care to know.
2007-05-27 12:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by danielle b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitly leave the past in the past. If he wanted to know he would have asked you already. Some guys just don't want to know the details. It better left unsaid. But if he does ask give a very short version and don't give intimate details you might pee him off.
2007-05-27 12:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by shaz35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONESTLY....PLease ladies DO NOT and i mean DO NOT EVERE TELL YOU BOYFRIEND about PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS..why? well number 1 its none of their business and sometimes guys will want to know how you were treated so they can treat you the same way they did...never give in make them wonder..always say your relationships were great even if they werent it works trust me...thats personal anyways and like i said none of their bees wax
2007-05-27 12:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by krissy t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a gentleman.
never bring up past boyfriends.
whatever happened before you met him
shouldn't be shared.
basically..guys don't want to know.
2007-05-27 12:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it in the past if he hasn't asked about it.
2007-05-27 12:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Brandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys look at you just as mango !
therefore, they don't care about your past .
May be another guy another time would ask you .
2007-05-27 12:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, I wouldn't wanna know about your past boyfriend. It'll make me jealous.
2007-05-27 12:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let sleeping dogs lie...Your boyfriend doesn't want to know ANYTHING about your past so please don't bring it up.
2007-05-27 12:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't want to know ur history with someone. it does not matter to us. it is ur history.
2007-05-27 12:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by david w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋