is it cheating if your partner knows
2007-05-27 07:21:41 · 21 answers · asked by kera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is cheating if your partner does not or would not approve.
2007-05-27 07:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by 55JD55 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your personal values. It is a non contact sport, so the boundaries are unclear.
On one hand:
It is highly likely that the person attending the club will be turned on by the experience and it is a sexual act (on a superficial level)
if they went regularly, it could interfere with your life
on the other hand:
it is a business arrangement, there is no emotion involved.
It is the sort of thing that could happen after a few to many, with mates. The partner might not be there, so your not going to call them at home and ask, are you?
I think if you discuss it before (or after if spontanious) and are completely honest and respectful of each other's opinion and freedom it is OK.
Basically:
Dishonesty is the worst policy. It is not a big deal as long as both parties are open and trusting.
If one of the couple is not happy about it, then their wishes should be respected. If you then secretly went, this would be dishonest and there would be an element of cheating.
2007-05-27 07:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by yellowhaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing anything without your partner knowing is cheating. If you love and they love you, both of you have to be totally truthful.
2007-05-27 07:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way .. dont be so silly .. sleeping with someone without your partner knowing is cheating and thats the end of that
2007-05-27 07:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by navster01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you drive a Ford, is it cheating just to look at a Jaguar? Cheating is when someone DOES something that should only be reserved for their partner. If you are having sex, and think of someone else, even for second, is it cheating? No, it isn't.
2007-05-27 07:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not cheating unless you do something with the strippers. if youre just going for fun you should let ur partner know though. Being secretive is not good for a relationship
2007-05-27 07:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going to a strip club without telling your partner is very bad,and the reason you may not tell them is that that sort of place is for getting off with people.."cattle market"..why go out for a burger ,when you have a streak at home?
would you like your partner to look at naked bodies all evening.I am not saying ..why not go together.
2007-05-27 08:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i would never let my girl go to a strip club. It is cheating. Anything is cheating is you are hiding something.
2007-05-27 07:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no of course not, having sex with someone else without your partner knowing is cheating
2007-05-29 01:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I really don't think so. Unless you flirt with guys or girls. But I don't understand why you don't tell that you are going there to your partner. And why you don't go together? That would be much nicer.
2007-05-27 07:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by knowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋