What do white men think of black women?

Question

Aside from all the jokes I think they may just be a treasure at our doorstep that we can't even open our eyes to see. Do you find them ugly, pretty, or of any other delightful or objectionable nature? What is it that keeps our society so polarized?
Why does it matter? Because I'm talking potential true love here, that's why it matters. It's either get with the business of love somewhere and accept it, or face a lonely life with an old age home at the tail end of it for way too many sick lonely hearts and it isn't worth it just to maintain racial purity.

Well in all truth, I have no problem with skin color, but I DO have a problem with kinky hair. Just being honest, my hair being straight as a board, so, if i had kids born to me that had Kinky Hair I'd think ("What"), at least my fears anyway.

Answer 1

so your saying u like black girls or not

Answer 2

I'm not male... but I do have the opinion of my boyfriend who comments from time to time about how beautiful/ugly women are.

He thinks that it is just like looking at any other woman-- if she is beautiful, pretty, kind, smart, etc., it is based on her. He has seen some really pretty black women in his lifetime and he tells me that they are pretty--to ask my opinion. It's just like seeing a piece of artwork... you see one that is outstanding and you make a comment on it because it is that nice. I have commented on some women that carry themselves well and are very attractive too, whether she is black, white, asian, purple, pink, etc.

I don't think it is based on anything racial for all people. I think that there are personality traits that are commonly enjoyed with women and ones that are not. If she's a b***h, there's no doubt in my mind that she will have problems finding any man, regardless of color.

In my opinion, as a female, most women have the potential to live up to their greatest possibility. Some men like to take care of their women, some don't like to take it that far. Some women value their own strength and control, some do not. Some of the women that I know, whether they are black or white or whatever, are very strong, and some men are intimidated by that strength because they want to feel useful in the relationship as well, in terms of being able to take care of their woman and their family, as a man was supposed to do, once upon a time.

Each individual is different. I don't know if it is possible to give one definition to all white men, just like it would be impossible to give one definition to one woman.

I do agree with you about true love being the thing that matters. I wish I could give you more insight into all people's hearts, but that wouldn't work too well.

Answer 3

I'm a white guy and I think that some black women are hot! I would date Tyra Banks in a second even with the weight she put on. I also think some are ugly just like I think some white women are ugly. In a relationship, compatablity is very important, so if personalities and each others cultures are clashing, then it wouldn't work out. However, I have seen black people act just like any white person, and I've seen white people act like any black person. This is ok, as long as it is the real them.

Answer 4

Hmm, what do I think of black women being a white man...

Well, 9 times out of 10, when I see a black female, I'm not at all attracted towards her. I'm not racist or anything, but it's just hard for me to feel attracted to, or even fall in love with a black woman. The few black women that I have found attractive, have been light skinned.

I find myself as a pretty open-minded person, but I don't know why I just don't feel attracted to them. I guess I'm like many others, from either "side" (I say side, referring to black/white, when really, I'm on no side) that just feels more comfortable being with someone that looks like themselves, at least when it comes to skin color. But hey, who knows...

Answer 5

I'm a white, straight woman and personally think that black women are just GORGEOUS! They have that natural, inborn beauty and charm that make them really unique!

My fiance is black and I consider people talking about 'racial purity' just sick individuals full of hang ups. The world is beautiful because of the many colors it has, the sooner people understand this, the better our world will become.

Answer 6

It really does not have to do with color, it is the quality of the person and the preference of the person that is interested.

I do have the opinion that in 1 to 200 years all of the world will be cocoa colored.

Answer 7

Color is irrelevant to me so I reel away from any kind of stereotypes that society or people place on other people.

Being disabled, I am tired of people evaluating me on what I cannot do as opposed to what I can do. As a prince, I still slay dragons and people who think like this.

Life is with people. Color or any other thing that makes them distinct and beautiful--I would break bread with them anytime.

Answer 8

i try to keep an open mind about it, i mean i could find true love with a black women. not my type usually to be honest but we never know. there is good and bad people in every color!

Answer 9

well u have men that just like women and color does not matter to them

Answer 10

we all have our likes and dislikes.

my friend charlie who is white has never dated a white woman. he said in junior high he came to the conclusion that he liked black women and that was that.

when i was a kid california, i saw many older black and white couples. i wish i had had the opportunity to speak with them about their relationship. i suspect many of them were from the south and migrated to california to escape the problems.

do not make your life unhappy. do what makes you happy.

on a similar note, nicholas cage was eating in a restaurant in las vegas, looked at the waitress who was korean, decided she was the one and soon got married to her.

Answer 11

I am a white man that finds black woman very beautiful and very loving.