I'm almost 30 and starting to seriously think about getting married, starting a family, etc. However it seems like there are just no decent guys. I've dated a lot, had a lot of boyfriends and long r/ships. At first they always seem great and perfect, but the more I get to know the guys I date, the more I learn that they are poor quality people. Selfish, sex-crazed, shallow, etc. All I want is a guy with strength of character that I can admire. A guy who has a "deeper" side. Are guys so overwhelmed with their testosterone that they are just sex-crazed selfish little boys? All of them? Where can I find a good man? Thanks!!!
P.S. I feel I have a lot of offer. I'm educated, can carry on a conversation, I have an important job, considerate of others, a lot of things I like to do, etc. It shouldn't be so hard, should it?
2007-05-27 05:25:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Because some boys always play other girls. but not all. you should find someone that is faithful.
2007-05-27 05:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by camille_micha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your 'superman' doesn't look like a movie idol, too.
I'd say you should widen your field. Strength of character usually develops from achieving goals in the face of adversity, and our society doesn't provide the type of personal challenge (especially to spoiled pretty boys) that builds character.
So, you're going to have to look someone who's been challenged a little. He may be in a wheelchair, or ugly, or poor and struggling. But he's got solid, decent ways, and he'll love you.
Oh, by the way, if he's healthy, he's probably sex-crazed. I suggest you find someone you can really love so that you find your sex-crazy side too.
2007-05-27 12:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to develop a radar for men like that. You can tell which are bad and which are good pretty quickly. Once you get the initial idea then go on a few dates. Set up ways where you can figure him out more. Ask questions. Be yourself so if he doesn't like you, you will know. Do not rush into anything take your time.
2007-05-27 12:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After approximately a million years of male/female interaction you females still have no idea what your dealing with, how pathetic.
Strength of character what's that?
Deeper side?
Love?
If your going to live in an illusion be prepared to be run over by reality.
2007-05-27 12:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love finds you when you aren't looking. Just relax and when the right one comes along, you'll know.
2007-05-27 12:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOul mates are hard to find. Reputable dating services might be an option. Blind dates another. Please don't sell yourself short. You will find him.
2007-05-27 12:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not settle for less than what you are asking for...
2007-05-27 12:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋