2007-05-27 04:25:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know when it's right because you will experience every emothion there is, ups and downs the good and the bad. Trust me you'll know when it's right.
2007-05-27 04:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by Grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot really choose when to "find" but you can choose when to start looking harder.
First, is it the right Season of Life for you to pursue love ? Consider your age and goals and dreams and decide. Jim Rohn has a great book of that title.
If it is then there are myriads of techniques to begin communications with potential mates.
1 -- The old fashioned bar scene thing. This worked in ancient times but it is highly inefficient and you have to see in person a lot of losers to find a gem.
2 -- Personal interest. Church, Sports, School, Business, basically getting yourself around people that have similar interests that you share and thus increase your likelihood of compatability and long term potential.
3 -- Singles groups. Again Church or other sponsors of these things can get you in front of others looking for a mate too.
4 -- Pay companies.
5 -- The new and all powerful internet. Same as # 4 but much more efficient again. I recommend this last one because you can prescreen as many people as you want before you ever have to even give out your e-mail address or phone number. Also they range from free to a lot less than the regular pay companies.
So the most important part of this is you and where you are at. If you are ready for love then go after it. It is rare that those stories of just happened to found "the one" occur.
Read some books on love and relationships and create a better chance for you not to become part of the ridiculous divorce rate statistic.
I Pray this Serves well.
2007-05-27 11:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Viking Brethren 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will not know, its a matter of time. But first of all you have to know yourself before everything. know what you "really" are in every situation, and what you will reflect. Since when every relation has its own charge of commitments and changes in your soul. But you will be back to your own personality very soon, and thats the start of disaster... The right person, is just the person on your right hand. And when you will find out that a person is the right one or not, that you try to think about everything, instead of falling in love. Love absolutely is not a matter of chance, its made by your own hands, and you have to build it. But together with the right person...
2007-05-27 11:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by The X-tra! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ever know a person completely but if you feel comfortable with a person and enjoy being with that person and you don't feel a need to be with that person constantly, chances are good that you will have a good relationship.
It needn't start with an earthshaking feeling of being high and in love--this could be just sexual attraction and have nothing to do with the kind of love that makes a long relationship work.
Being the right kind of person is not a matter of being agreeable and "nice" and submissive, and anyone who wants you to conform to his or her ideal of what you should be is not the right person for you.
2007-05-27 11:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by henry d 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all about timing, being at the right place at the right time. This could be anywhere. And when you meet this person you will know right off hand this is the "one", because you both will feel this strong vibe. Just try not to look, let him come to you, it will happen when you least expect it.
2007-05-27 11:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nana8 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny.
There is some study that men know within the first 3 dates if they are going to marry you.
To test this, ask men that have been married for more than 30 years, when they knew. They will all tell you, right away.
Women: The study says about 30 dates. He will find you is probably because he will realize it before you do.
2007-05-27 11:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by criminallyunfaithful 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oo sweetie youll know it!! as a teen i fell in love so many times and i jsut knew he was the right one for me...until i got older..in my 20's..then i found another and another..all knowing they was the one..well today at 49 i finally found the one!! the soul mate will make your heart pound..youll have them oin your mind constantly want to share every moment wiht them...you build your life around them.... and even after marrying them..you tolerate their nasty fartin n burpin even tho ya wanna gag!!!!lolo...seriously but funny...
2007-05-27 11:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by bettym 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will respect and honor you, and you will know that one is the one for life commitment and that one will feel the same about you-if you got to change their mind-they will change your mind to give up on true love and life commitment. did you ever hear of marriage-make sure any boyfriend is geared to marriage-and dont go out with a cheater-learn their reputation before you date them, make sure they are real to find the right one.
yet I found out by living the other way-people who dont wait for marriage-to have the blessing of marriage usually dont get married. "In marriage the bed is undefiled but the others will be judged." Hebrews 13
the answer that changed me from living in dishonor to change=help from above-in Jesus amazing grace that saved me=John 3 repented of sin-even one lie and let Jesus in to my heart to save me and be my friend, amen
Jesus says "I love you, repent quickly and turn from your sin to me, Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you pray and ask me in, I will come in and forgive your sins, and be your friend." Revelation 3:19&20 Yes what a true friend I have now in Jesus to help me, and he gives me more joy and inner peace than I ever had before in my life.
-and most important the answer to change to truth and true love=peace in the prince of peace Isaiah 9:6 "Unto us a child is born, a son is given, and he will be almighty God and the prince of peace." I got inner peace in the Messiah my best friend Isaiah 52:13-53:12 promised first to "He will lay down his life to make atonement for our sins." Pray for truth and share, David
2007-05-27 11:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you're comfy with him and happy with him. But always expect pain ahead.
2007-05-27 11:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by vaniLLa pLeasuRE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they come along.
2007-05-27 11:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋