I just seem not to like anyone. Cause if i think i like someone, once i get to know them i don't want to go out with them anymore. I hate being so lonely. Should i just give everyone a chance? I think i just have way too high standards,, like movie star like. There is this guy I think i might like, i dont know. But i know he likes me. Should i ask him out, and just see what its like having a boyfriend?
2007-05-27 04:19:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
instead of asking him out to see what its like to have a boyfriend, why not ask him out to see what he is like as a person, friend, or date? Build a friendship first and then go from there. I dont think you should just give everyone and anyone a chance, but, i do think that going out on dates with other guys will help you to see what exactly are your standards so you can figure out if they are realistic.
2007-05-27 04:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by chrystal_grove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out once doesn't make him your boyfriend. Dating doesn't make him your boyfriend. When you and he sit down and talk about how you don't want each other to see other people and that you want to just be together, that makes him your boyfriend.
Why do you kids always want to jump into a relationship? Dating is supposed to be fun and it's a good way to get to know various people before you commit. Then again I guess when you sleep around without a commitment you have to grasp at any straw you can.
2007-05-27 11:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going through this same thing for years, and I finally said yes to a guy that approached me with something intelligent, things that interest me. This made it easier for me to see what he was all about. There is nothing wrong with being a little picky, but don't base your decision on what they look like, wait until they say something, when you find one that says something you like, then go for it. Time is precious, don't waste it on losers.
2007-05-27 11:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by mianjo413 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ok ill say it this way..**** OR GET OFF THE POT...dang nobody can make you want to date..and some cant maybe like ya dont know.....someone..either ya do or ya dont or youd like to see if youd want to date a certain person..ok??sounds to me your..your worst enemy...if you choose to be nasty then it shows with your outside appearance..let go of the high standards you think you should have..becuase believe me nobody wants to date a snob..bore or someone who is so into them selves as you seem to be..
2007-05-27 11:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by bettym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes .love is awesome.but dint put expectations.just go out and do whatever comes along.your not suppose to be lonely.you need to have fun be happy .god does not want us to be sad,but try to find 10 things you like in yourself then go find 10 more things why you deserve to be happy not lonely.then go out and do them.if you cant allow yourself to say yes to anyone ask him.let your hair down.watch out your fixing to be a very happy person. ill tell you i wish i could take you out and show you how really special you truly are. let me know how it goes.remember you are important and a beautiful person who deserves to be happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-27 11:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by JAYHAWKER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is "normal". Sounds like you have low self-esteem and likely had a unpleasant childhood. You may wish to try counseling.
2007-05-27 11:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up. Buy a special plastic friend.
2007-05-27 11:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Rockhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not like you can help who you like. don't force yourself to do anything. if u like him, and he likes you it's worth a shot. but if your not interested in that person you will get the wrong perception on what a good relationship can be like.
2007-05-27 11:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Joe.
2007-05-27 11:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you aren't ready to have a BF - then don't
2007-05-27 11:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋