We are together for 8 month now. Everything used to be fine, until I got issues with my menstrual cycle...For a couple of month, I was bleeding several times a month with only few days break in between, so we were having sex only during the days when I was not menstruating. Now I am fine, but my boyfriend says that he is so used o not having sex that he doesnt crave for it...I have to ASK him to have sex with me and he just doesnt care if he does or not....I know he is not cheating on me, because we are together all the time...Is it normal for a guy not to crave sex???
2007-05-27 03:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is 27...I tried talking to him..but he just gives me all types of excuses why he is not as much into sex as he used to be.
2007-05-27 04:08:16 · update #1
How old is he? And yes men go through times where they are not interested then bounce back.
2007-05-27 03:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by beth l 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a biological standpoint, when we go long enough without sex, especially if he's been supplimenting it solo on the side, if you catch my meaning, our sex drive diminishes. Talk to him about it. It could also be that you two have some unresolved issues. He may hold some resentment for the time when you weren't having sex. DO NOT listen to these people and ruin what could be a good, healthy relationship because they can't understand that there are other reasons for a loss of interest in sex besides cheating. That only shows that they either aren't, or don't know any, real men. Remember, the key to any good relationship is communication. Talk to him about it, and I promise you'll figure something out.
2007-05-27 03:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by bardryn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its awesome that you are holding your ground! Good for you! And yes it is very normal, everyone goes at their own pace. And no it doesn't show that you are scared. Having sex for the first time is a big deal. Waiting is good... better safe than sorry! Maybe its because he is pressuring you and keeps asking you, that would make me want to not have sex with my boyfriend if he did that!
2016-04-01 10:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy...all that blood,and time with no sex was a turn off,no man wil turn down free..p-----y,unless he is turned off and turned on elsewhere or gay,or has medical issues,perhaps he just doesnt want to hurt your feelings,there is something else going on,and it is not that he's just used to it,it may not be another,but its not that he's just used to it,you need to find out the true reason,ALL men crave sex!!!...All the time,unless there are these issues....good luck.
2007-05-27 03:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by 2fitornot2fit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try seduction if that doesn't work ask him to get medical help. I recently lost my wife over a dramatic loss of libido My serum testosterone was way low. If that's not it and it's important to you ask him to go to counseling with you. Do whatever it takes these things can tear a relationship up fast. Don't let it happen to you
2007-05-27 03:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by charles p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't never underestimate your man. He is probably cheating. Hey we will take a sick day from work, alternate our schedule to get in a little nookie with someone else. The only other answer he might be gay. Or he is trying to get rid of you.
2007-05-27 03:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it 's normal for a guy not to crave sex , especially when he is not used to doing it anymore . So i would be thankful ot be one of the luck ones .
2007-05-27 03:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got someone on the side. Probably a good idea to call it quits with him and go your own way. Find things that keep you busy for the summer.
2007-05-27 03:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be going through some mental problem or the feelings that existed have now fizzled. Talk to him and try to make things spark up again.
2007-05-27 03:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normal no.. but there are some who just have a low sex drive. if things were fine before you should be able to make them fine again, you just have to work at it.. try seducing him... start the foreplay earlier to get him in the mood. try old fashioned flirting!
2007-05-27 03:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by t g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋