Note: this did not happen to me, but this is what my girl told her ex months before she met me. She also told me she didn't really feel anything for him he was just sooo nice to her.
2007-05-27 02:22:17 · 21 answers · asked by ben b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
madgurl u are a more one...did you even read the question??
2007-05-27 02:34:28 · update #1
It was her way of kicking him to the curb. I'd keep my eyes on this one. She used the other guy. She admitted she didn't feel anything for him, but he was just sooooooo nice to her. Will she do it to you too?
2007-05-27 02:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by ~RedBird~ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it means she might be too busy (with school or family life), I've said that and meant it before...sometimes life is too busy and not enough time to devote to a man. If this is true don't wait persay but stay in the girls life if you really want her, but dont make her think your going to be lonely waiting for her , she'd feel bad.
a lot of times I think girls say this because they just dont want to be with something for whatever reason. Its the easiest way to break it off with someone. I've been on both ends of this one. If this is the case, nothing you can do. might change her mind later but probably not. Best to just move on
2007-05-27 18:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by orntelove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chuckle, lesson learned here. Don't be sooo nice. Doesn't speak very highly of your girl. She obviously did not respect her ex, but she sure stuck around long enough to suck him dry. Then she rejected him like an empty milk carton. How many dudes has she been through? Which number are you?
2007-05-27 09:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, there are several reasons what a girl could mean by that. it could mean that she just wasn't ready for a relationship, or that she didn't really like the guy that much and wanted to let him down easy, or she was just plain sick of the guy! maybe she was annoyed by how "nice" the guy could be. sometimes i guess girls need to argue >_<
2007-05-27 09:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by my_only_onee_x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was dumped by her in her own way...
Why worry about something that happened in the past??
...has nothing to do with you and her as a couple. I'd just worry about what's going on now and the future of your relationship.
Unless there was something of her past that ACTUALLY effects your current times together (like health issues or something else that could get in the way of a relationship). Other than that man, her past is her past....not yours. Or your past is your past, not hers.
2007-05-27 09:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by MDO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the situation...
might she likes/ loves someone else..or she has just got enough of you.........if this is the case u cant do anything ....cuz she has alredy dumped you....!!
but if the case is : might be she is speaking the truth ..she might have got some other commitments...like work...which she thinks is more important!
then..........
try and give her more time,,,speak to her,,,ask her the reason why did she leave you in mid way? but with politeness! and dignity!
try and get her back....make her feel u are important!
tell her how important she is to u......n that u can do nythng to get her back!!
2007-05-27 09:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by madgurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means she doesn't want a boyfriend in her life right now because boyfriends can cause lots of stress and drama.
If a person is focused on other things in their life they don't need that kind of nonsense and distraction.
2007-05-27 09:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that she's not ready for a relationship, or that was her way of dumping him nicely.
2007-05-27 09:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either A - she didn't like him or B - she just wants to endorse her enorphins so that she can meet a better guy to call a boyfriend.
2007-05-27 09:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by Brennus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She was just trying to break up with the poor guy without breaking his heart..
2007-05-27 09:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋