2007-05-27 02:19:57 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to wait, if he loves you , he will. If he force you , dump him for a better guy. Good men can always wait to have sex. Trust me, i know what men want.
2007-05-27 02:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself a few questions. First are you ready for all of the responsiblities that sex brings and I'm not just talking about the maybes like pregnancy or STDs. Do you love him? Does he love you? How long have you been with him? If you've been with him for only a short time like a yr or less even though this may seam like a long time for you while you are so young but once you get older you will learn that you will have longer lasting relationships. Also make sure if you say you love him that you actually do and its not just a puppy love. My last bit of advice is something that I have always told my friends when they ask if they should do something that has to do with the matter of the heart. If you have to ask don't do it until you are sure of the answer yourself.
2007-05-27 09:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by anglzndskyz2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide whether you want to have sex or not. Don't feel pressured to do it, do what is comfortable for you and be prepared to deal with the consequences.
2007-05-27 09:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jacqui Waze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL boyfriends want to have sex with their girlfriends.
The idea that you should "dump him" if you don't want to do it is ridiculous. You will be dumping boyfriend after bofriend until you are meet a closted gay guy who will be "perfect" for your requirements.
I'm not saying you have to submit to his desires. You can chose one way or the other--just be honest with yourself and with him.
2007-05-27 09:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you to say a capital NO cause you should no that sex and love are two different things and you know he might dump you after is mission is accomplished so think wisely .
2007-05-27 09:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by raycent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have sex with him, then have sex with him if you do not want to have sex with him don't.But if you do have sex with him were tell him to were condoms.
2007-05-27 13:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by Miley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is comfortable. Don't let him pressure you. And know that sex can lead to pregnancy and STIs.
2007-05-27 09:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the important question is -do u want to have sex with him?
if u don't want,don't let him force u
if he say he will not boyfriend u because u refuse him, hurry dump him-he only want your body!!!
2007-05-27 09:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by Dante z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he do and you dont then tell him your not ready. if he keeps asking and wanting to even though u dont want to then leave him. u know i have seen many ladies get hurt by many many men just because he was using her to have sex.
2007-05-27 09:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you have to know if you're ready. If you're not don't even think twice about doing it because you may regret it (if you're really young still) otherwise it's your body and your life that you are going to risk screwing up.
2007-05-27 09:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋