I lost my virginity last night to my girlfriend who said she had done it lots, but she ended up crying during sex and Vomited all over me. She then said it was because I hurt her..
Can any one relate to this? is this actualy normal behaviour
2007-05-27 01:59:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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if u had someone throw up on u wuld u carry on havin sex with them?
no she said she'd done it lots but she looked uncomfotable so i said have u done it before an she said yeah an she never said stop she never said no she looked like she enjoyed it but then ended up throwing up on me an saying she didnt like it at all.?
2007-05-27 02:06:26 · update #1
i dont know how i hurt her that is the point !!
2007-05-27 02:07:23 · update #2
She has some issues. She actually wants someone to love her = not for sex but for herself. But she doesn't know that is possible, so she gives it up to be loved. She was then so disgusted about the fact that she did something she didn't want to do, that she blamed you for it - that you hurt her. She was drunk, obviously? People throw up when they are drunk. She might also have been a virgin and lied about it to entice you into thinking you could get it from her. The first time really sucks for a lot of people.
There is something to be said for waiting until marriage I think, because then, at least both parties know they are loved for who they are. Not that that means there won't be any head trips,
Sex is complicated - emotionally, physically and sometimes spiritually.
2007-05-27 02:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you have been holding out already then i think you know that you wouldn't want a one night stand. my boyfriend was a virgin and was around lots of girls who were the type to just have sex and never talk about it again and he had even gotten a few offers but he really didn't want to lose it like that so he waited and he was very happy that he lost it with me. you should take the advice of the 40 year old virgin and simply keep looking for a girlfriend. once you do have her, after a little while you can tell her you're a virgin and explain it and if shes the right girl she'll understand and want to help you. yes you will be a little inexperienced and quick but if she likes you a lot then she'll be patient. don't worry about what other people are thinking about you. being a social outcast? its not like people can read virgin on your forehead, no one even has to know. just because you don't get laid every night with random women does not mean you're a social outcast. have faith and work towards a girlfriend and i think it would be much more meaningful for you.
2016-05-19 00:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The crying I can understand. Obviously u nor your girlfriend were very experienced. Next time If she sais it hurts. You sould stop. Sex should not hurt. I would suggest that you give this some more time, and take time to do non sexual things with your girlfriend. Remember sex is not all about penitration especially for women. There is no one who can tell you what to do in bed, Its something you will have to experience. All I want to say is that it should feel right, all the way. If not STOP!
2007-05-27 02:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sickofmyjob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never heard of that one before. It's possible that she really was a virgin, and didn't deal with her first experience well. It's also possible that you did hurt her because of your lack of experience, most likely lack of lubrication. But that doesn't explain the vomiting.
All I can suggest is that you apologize profusely and try to discuss it with her to find out what went wrong.
2007-05-27 02:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was alcohol involved? Were you getting her drunk on purpose? Was she getting herself drunk?
No, women do not normally vomit on their partners after (or during) sex, not even when their partners are virgins.
If she had experience and you didn't, it was up to her to teach you what felt good and what didn't, and to tell you to stop if something was hurting.
If she told you to stop and you didn't, and that made her hurt more, and you kept going, then you got what was coming to you.
2007-05-27 02:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vomiting during sex usually isn't a good sign
2007-05-27 02:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
was she drunk?
maybe she was lying and she was a virgin b/c i dont know many girls that would say they have done it lots, even if they have.
I dont think its normal behavior. Try to comfort her and ask her to be honest about the situation.
2007-05-27 03:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by kerstin g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal behavior. She probably had OCD or something. Or she probably lied to you and said she wasn't a virgin but she really was. Just a thought...
2007-05-27 02:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by paul_dawisp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn - intence question mate but i'd say she was just wasted and not acting herself - u may have hurt her so i would apologise but she was obviously trashed cos she chundered
a little question - did she vomit befo u finished and you kept going???
2007-05-27 02:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by Che 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal behaviour and I am sitting here wondering if she was drunk or high when you guys did this.
How did you hurt her?
2007-05-27 02:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by KrysNyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋