1. why do you broke up with your boyfriends when you feel bored with him and then when you see he has improve his life and you want him again? Why cant you's just stay with him and help him to get where you want him. theirs not much loyal . im talking about love not just like. if its just like i understand
2. why is it ok for women for them to say another guy is so hot and attractive especially when her friends are there as well. but its not ok for men too look?
i think both men and women are in some way the same. now im not saying all men and women but theirs alot of things we do to each other.
2007-05-27 00:18:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is it okay for you to post questions with such poor spelling?
2007-05-27 00:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I have ever been bored with someone I broke up with. So I can not answer question 1.
2. I suppose I am a woman who has done this in the past but, I would no longer do it. I have been cheated on many times and I consider looking cheating as well. If you are serious about someone you will not look, comment, leer, touch, or even think about it. This is old fashioned thinking for todays society. I should have been born in another era.lol
Women and men are very different, some women can actually look at a man who is attractive and make a comment without ever a thought of it going any further. I don't believe the men of today's society and culture can do this. At least not very many.
2007-06-03 22:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. We want him back for that exact reason: He has improved his life. Obvisously there's something there now that wasn't there before (and no I don't mean money) and we couldn't get it out of him ourselves. He had to realize it on his own.
2. Personally, I don't care if my man thinks another woman is hot. He can look but he can't touch. I'm not gonna sit around and babysit a grown man.
I agree with you that both men and women are the same. We both have to realize this!!
2007-06-04 00:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Fabi P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weel honey your question is very interesting to me.
I am a gril and have made me the same question.
i am like all woman, is just that I like to think about my feelings and have some theories about.
First, when a girl want something and get it, it loose a little senses for her... You must to be very creative with her to get her always interested in you.
Some times man are a little lazy I don't realize that we need new things almost every day. That is the reason for old man stole the girls of young ones. and men preffer not changes in the realtionship so we have to play with this.
Another thing is just that most of time woman grow up without pather and it makes her to wanted just what she have not,, always, there, you have nothing to do...
And women are also more competitive between us than men... so we need to feel more sexy or pretty or smart than other girls, so if you find another is like: Oh she can be with him, then he must have something, I want to figure out what it is, and she trys to get u back...
My advice, be sure to know the history of the girls you have about the pather and mother realtionship.... you can have an idea about what she needs and the behavior she will show you in the realtionship... Hope my answer helps u
2007-05-27 07:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by XELIN 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. If a woman breaks up with a man then later wants him back when he is doing better for himself then obviously she is either an idiot or a gold digger. Not all of us are like that. If a woman really loves a man she wouldn't leave him for being bored.
2. It is ok for men to look, it's not like you don't do it anyway.
2007-05-27 07:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by myleslr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like men who keep things interesting and that don't bore them easily. I can only answer your first question because the other seems to not be related to ALL women, as all women do not act like that, only a few.
2007-06-03 23:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by blondie0016 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are fundamentally immature, and the more attractive a woman is to the opposite sex, the more immature she remains.
Intelligence and maturity are a matter of genetics, but there is also the 'kicks in the face' angle. Being dumped is one of those 'character-building' things that whilst painful, help you to grow.
The number of really hot chicks who get dumped, is low. Put yourself in their shoes: if you *knew* that you could get sex whenever and wherever you wanted it, and that you could - quite literally - get a new lover in the space of ninety seconds, would *you* bother staying?
The downside for this is that it is becoming increasingly difficult if not impossible for feminists (of which I count myself as one) to deny the obvious: that beautiful women are usually as dumb as sh*t. Maybe when they start treating men like humans, rather than as soiled Tampax, then they might start getting the respect that they deserve.
And believe me .. posting words like these gives me no pleasure *whatsoever*.
2007-05-27 07:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gold digger
2007-06-03 22:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by minnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess each individuals or lets say each gender has their own presumptions in life they think things differently but then its upon us to let them understand our point of view. you know communication is very essential to all relationships and thats the secret of others success!try to talk to him thats the best way!
2007-05-27 07:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by sexylicious body 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman who does any of this is, and I hate to say it, trash. They are obviously not worth it.Find some one else.
2007-05-27 07:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋