When you're dating, it seems that bitches and bastards lurk in every corner, ready to pounce on nice girls and guys with the sole intention of messing with their minds and playing with their hearts. Why do we fall for bad boys/bad girls time and again - and how can we stop this heartbreaking self-destructive pattern?
2007-05-27 00:05:22 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love yourself. If you begin to think of yourself as your greatest gift, you won't need some losers crap to make your life complete. You don't need someone to COMPLETE you. You were born with everything in your heart, mind, and soul - complete. When you start thinking of yourself as half a person looking for the other half, it's like saying I'm nothing without you. I've gone through my share of bad relationships and, let me tell you, I dumped the losers the day I decided I don't need anyone or anything to make me whole. I am a whole person and I'm a wonderful human being. I don't look at men like I would be lucky to have them - that sounds needy and desperate, doesn't it? Oh no. I am the prize and they would be lucky to have ME. That is my confidence and my self-esteem talking. Believe me, no loser in the world wants a confident woman full of self-esteem and a good sense of self worth. Become the prize, my dear, and you too will kiss the losers of the world goodbye forever. I guarantee it.
2007-05-27 00:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe dating is what frustrated people do,both or either of the 2 is frustrated. So just make sure you are not being trapped n used . It is so common these days.Afew sweet words n girls get trapped.Can be viceversa but most of the girls are innocent,stupid rather. Your innocence n purity are your VIRTUE.Please don't spoil these at any cost.
Marriage is so pure. Choose these path not dating etc...its all immoral experimentation,heartbreak. Everyone enjoys after getting married then why mess your character before that.
2007-05-27 02:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by friend 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know what you mean and do not know the answer but maybe try looking places where "nice" might be located. Such as libraries or if you attend church. Try looking for the "not so good looking" guy. I have often though of trying a really ugly guy but have never found a guy I felt was really ugly. lol Good luck to you.
2007-05-27 00:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look for a mate that you actually have some common interests, not just the bad boys
2007-05-27 00:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Gary M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to stop feeling heartbroken about it
and that is dont let it get to you they will soon get sick and tired
I had a few lasses who are determined to split us
but if you got trust and are happy in love be strong and be happy forget what other jealous lowlifes to think about you and how happy you are.
2007-05-27 00:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
by not minding it... that's dating life, or that's just how it is . it's like math.. errors.. so you have to try and try again till you find the right, sensible person to be with.you can't stop it, but you can avoid it by not hooking up and getting too intimate with a person whom you are not serious about.
2007-05-27 00:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its the social standards set by the american public, deal with it or get the f$ck out.
2007-05-27 00:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Adamos 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not all are the same
not all are bad as you say
some play a game
one is true, you'll find one day
2007-05-27 00:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont try just go along with it its a learning experience~~
2007-05-27 00:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats soo true..idk why...im under the attracted -to-an-asshole situation..sukks cus i really like him but all hes doing is LEADING ME ONN!!grrrr!!
2007-05-27 00:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋