is there anybody out there that exprienced the deep hurt from somebody that you dont even imagin it?

Question

people get hurt from who they know is harmful but my pain is i got hurt from the closest person which i made my whole world:(( i dont even believe there is any god any more is there?thats too cruel

Answer 1

Many of us have experienced such pain from a broken heart that we saw no reason to live, no hope for the future, and yes, lost belief in god. It appears you are still fairly young, so you are more susceptable to losing hope. That's because as we get older, we've survived more and more losses and learned that life does go on. You have my empathy, young one. Now fight like hell to get past your pain. Whatever you do, please don't have a rebound affair, you'll just feel worse after it's over. And don't make rash decisions that may affect your future, put them off until you can trust your own judgement. Keep telling yourself you still have a life of happiness ahead of you, because you can if you learn from this and become a stronger person. Life is full of disappointments, but once the wounds heal, you'll find that the good times outweigh the bad. Keep on keepin' on!!!!!!

Answer 2

I'm sorry to hear that you have been hurt so deeply. I don't
think that there are many of us, who don't get through life and
not get deeply hurt at some point by someone we'd least
expect it of. This is all a part of living life and experiencing
growth. Pain and love are what makes us into the beings
we become later in life. If life was smoothe sailing, and
we all were in love and are loved, that would just be a fairy
tale. For life has its' ups and downs, and so does love and
friendships as well. It's how we learn to handle these obstacles in life that show what we're made of. And often
we have to make ourselves to be stronger than we thought
we were before the setbacks. Many of us are lucky if we
only have one crushing blow. And there are so many more,
that never have a trusting, loving relationship. I often wonder,
is it the luck of the draw? Why do some people not find
love, and others do, that last the rest of their adult lives.
Those of us who are married, often have to work at staying
married. Learning from their earlier mishaps and trying to
not repeat mistakes they have learned from.
I don't know who's crushed you, or why, but you have to learn from this somehow, and pick yourself up, dust yourself
off and start a new day and do your best to put it all behind
you. That's all you can do, or let yourself be eaten alive by
the depression that could easily overcome you. And you are
stronger than that, I'm sure.
Give yourself time to grieve over this unhappiness, and then
rise above it. For better things will come. Nothing stays the
same, they say. And you can also make sure of that.

Answer 3

its so true that the ones we love most are the ones who hurt us most. its part of life. maybe hurting you hurt them as much. you dont know what they're going through. at the end of the day the people that hurt us do turn out to be the people who are there for us helping us getting over the hurt. like people say, everyone gets hurt in life just remember you're not the only one.

Answer 4

Its ironic that the people closest to you are the ones that cause the most hurt. Once i was completely blind-sided by someone who meant everything. I felt like i was not really alive, but just seeing my life in third-person, and watching myself going through the motions of life. For days i couldn't eat or sleep; my pulse rate went through the roof, and i felt like i forgot how to breathe. I ended up in fog for a month. I don't remember how i pulled it back together, but i did - it just takes time.

Answer 5

It seems that when a loved one hurts us, it is the most painful thing in the world. It seems even worse if it is a romantic relationship that goes bad; pain that makes us feel that we will never recover. Speaking from experience, I can tell that as time passes, you will feel better. It will take time, but time does "heal all wounds". Hang in there.

Answer 6

It feels like you'll never be able to smile again right now but it will pass. And each time it happens it hurts just the same. you dont get used to it but you get over it . if that makes any sence. but its true. when my daughter died i thought i was going to kill myself but i got through it, and so will you. you have to go through this kind of stuff to be human. Ive learned to embrace the pain and go on. YOU WILL BE OK. . this is how I STARTED believing in God.

Answer 7

Mmhmm. properly, first he desperate to cheat for one million/2 the dating (8 months), so when I found out, I purely stopped all touch. not something i admire remembering. yet a solid e book has never left me for somebody else. That, i'm proud to declare, is a superb element.