i think that i'm ready to have sex for the first time. me and my bf decided that it might take our relationship further. we have condoms and birth control. but i need to know if you people think that i'm too young. i truly love my bf. i'm 15 and he's 16.
2007-05-26 17:01:59 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Rawr! Shawna monster attack!♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks, i think that i'm gonna wait until i am married. that's the best thing to do. And if my bf doesn't like it, then i'll leave him.
2007-05-26 17:12:18 · update #1
I for one think that you are too young.
I am 15 also. To me that is too young, but I want to wait until i'm married so anytime until i am married is too young for me.
2007-05-26 17:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife decided at age 16 to have sex. She used a condom however it leaked and needless to say, she got pregnant. With her families support, she did graduate with a child however she was not able to enjoy any high school years or college. We talk sometimes about what we did back in those days and she can not relate. She did marry the father thinking they were in love, but after 2 years, she divorced and ended up raising a child. Birth Control and condoms may seem like that is all you need, but there is NO protection against loosing your virginity and looking back with all the regrets that it would give you! Hope you make the right decision.
2007-05-26 17:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If "you think" you may be ready,you have your doubts. Why not wait and see how things go for another six months? What's the rush?
Keep in mind condoms and birth control aren't 100% effective, especially used by people unfamiliar with them. Are you and bf ready to have a baby? Are you ready for the heartache if he walks away? Will you look back someday and regret that you did this?
From your previous questions, you have suicidal tendacies, think a lot about death, and apparently haven't known your bf very long. Do you think you're ready for this?
It's good you're thinking. Now, think some more.
2007-05-26 17:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hrmm... such a question. Sad to say, a lot of people do do it... so by not doing it, you will slighly limit yourself to the amount of relationship experience you can accumulate. (i dont think you'll spend the rest of your life with him, the odds are very slim)
Sex is a very intimate thing... something i'm not convienced that a person at your age can comprehend. You could also get an STD, get pregnant, or get your feelings hurt.
Personally, i would say to wait, it will mean that much more to the man you marry.
2007-05-26 17:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion (and God's)... anytime before marriage is too young! But even if I were not a Christian (which I am sooo glad I am), 15 and 16 is way to young!!! Hunny, don't ruin your life. Your virginity is a precious gift that you can never get back once you give it to someone.
2007-05-26 17:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
about the age most start but don't expect too much. you know though if you hang on to it until you're married somebody will feel mighty special and they just might treat you a little more special too. don't let yourself get pressured into it----its not a prerequisite for love its a priveledge of love. good luck.
2007-05-26 17:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by say what? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask this question then yes you probally are too young. It isn't only about he age it is the mental state also. As far as it helping your relationship NO it will not. It could lead to confrontation about later expectaions. Most of all I know it sounds crazy but talk to your mom she knows best. (most of the time :) )
2007-05-26 17:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by snoopyj3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats when many people do it. Its very normal.
2007-05-26 17:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by Money Shot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watevr floats your boat, just don't do sumtin ull regret.
2007-05-26 17:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by angusrocker1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋