So Im really into this girl, and I kinda wanna be with her, but she currently has a boyfriend, who is a looser [or atleast I think so] Its it so terrible to try and break them up so I can be with her or what?
2007-05-26 16:49:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So should I just hang around her as friends? Stay further away? Im gonna have the opportunity to work with her this fall and help her out alot at school, should I do that or keep my distance?
2007-05-26 17:03:06 · update #1
I guess it depends. You sound like the kind of guy that would do anything to be with this girl but honestly, it would just be better to let them get tired of each other. Take it from a person with experience: Take advantage of the time she's with her boyfriend to become good friends with her. Show her how nice you can be and she'll soon fall for you. That's what happened to me and it ended up being a good choice. My boyfriend is a whole lot better than the one that I used to have and if he hadn't gotten the idea to become my friend, he would have never opened my eyes to see that the other guy was an ***.
So long as you don't have a better reason to break them up, don't do it. Just become friends and you'll soon see how well of a man you can be!
2007-05-26 16:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by Terry 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It will make you a bad person if you interfere with her relationship - if you like her that much you will not hurt or confuse her by trying to mess with her current relationship...
if you care for her that much then you need to wait until she is single - if the guy is a loser, she will figure it out eventually...and be free and clear fro you to tell her how you feel if you still even do.
2007-05-26 23:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes if hes not doing nothing wrong to her. you need to let her know that you like her and see what she says but tell her no matter what you do want to be her friend and if she says no to being with you stay as her friend so that if they do break up then you can try to be with her
2007-05-26 23:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two views:
1. It is wrong to interfere with the self-determination of others.
2. All is fair in love and war.
Take you pick.
2007-05-26 23:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah it's wrong man! She's with this guy because she sees something him that she likes. Whether it be his looks, his attitude, his sense of humor, or whatever.....she digs it.
It would be totally lacking in character to try to break them up.
2007-05-26 23:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah kinda. Being a meddler is no good. because is things dont go well for you with her, not only will she dislike you but so will her previous boy firend. hopefuly that made sense.
2007-05-26 23:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by ricky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its sweet that you like her so much but if she is happy with her current bf, dont ruin it for her by tring to break them up.
2007-05-26 23:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect her , and her boyfriend, bad karma will be heading your way if you try to break them up, find a girl that is single.
2007-05-26 23:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah because if she will leave him for u dont u think she'll do it to u if someone just came and did what ur trying to do now.
2007-05-26 23:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Raven24k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All is fair in love and war.
2007-05-26 23:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by LDY E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋