about 3 years ago i was with two of my friends. one a guy and one a girl. me and my guy friend,(please note that he was not my boyfriend) were drinking. i had drank a lot and was pretty out of it. my girl friend had fallen a sleep while me and my guy friend stayed up talking. all of a sudden he kissed me. i didnt think much of it because he was cute and i kind of liked him. so we started making out. and then things went further then what i was comfertable with. he started trying to put his hands down my pants and "feeling me up" i told him that i wanted to wait before a while before i did any thing. he said fine and we just started talking again. i drank some more and pretty soon i had passed out. the next morning i woke up with a horrabile pain in my vigina and was bleeding. i think i was raped but because i was passed out and dont remember anything more then i told you i cant be sure what do you think?
2007-05-26 15:07:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG... he raped you... go to the dr and call the police and a lawyer because thats not right if you had no will it was still against your will he may have hurt you so please go get some help quickly
2007-05-26 15:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by 19871019 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This happened about three years ago? Have you told anyone about it before now? Were you not conserned about your well being? There are so many Things that are wrong with this picture, After all this time I dont think that it would help to go to the Hospital now to much time has past for any test to be worth anything, And If you go to the cops they are going to want to know why you didn't come before now.. I would however go to the clinic and get tested for STDs , And You may want to seek some sort of counsling.. And you may want to Limit yourself On drinking When your Alone with a guy....
2007-05-26 22:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
On what iv learned about this in school and reading things on the internet about this if your a virgin and you have sex for the first time or get raped either way I think there will be a pain there and bleeding. So just based on that I think you might have been but im only guessing im not saying you were. I hope that help's a bit.
2007-05-26 22:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the ****? I think Ur stupid, three years come on get a clue should of report the incident right away,not now go see a therapist or it will affect you in the long run! If he is STEAL around report it but there is no evidence of the crime you wash it down the drain. He will denied every thing!! IF YOU WOULD OF FILE A REPORT RIGHT AWAY HE WOULDD OF GOT 200% MORE PAIN THAT YOU DIDN'T FEEL IN JAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!MOST OF THE INMATES WOULD OF DONE YOU A FAVOR!HAHAHA!! TO LATE..
2007-05-26 22:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police immediately I am pretty sure he raped you. No girl no matter what she has been doing or what happened that night deserves to be raped. Please don't think it was your fault. He will get caught and his sorry drunk a~ss will go to jail.
You could also confront him-sometimes guys will admit to a girl when they raped her in a cruel mean way though because they feel like they will never get caught or no one will ever believe the girl. Please seek justice. There are way to many instances like this in the world.
2007-05-26 22:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Me nutrit Me destruit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the nearest hospital and have a rape kit done. They will check for evidence of a rape. You also need to file a police report. Do this immediately or you will be sorry.
2007-05-26 22:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Damon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you, but if you don't remember, either way the guy won't be convicted. You will have no proof that you even said no. I don't know what kind of answer you are looking for. You seem to be just telling us to vent.
Good luck, anyway.
2007-05-26 22:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by heartswiper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were raped. But if he tried and you said not why did you keeping on drinking?
2007-05-26 22:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a Med exam like right now, before you make a accusation on him
2007-05-26 22:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im with dgm... you need to talk to someoen even if you were doing wrong at some point what happen there was wrong. Get help or you may regret it.
2007-05-26 22:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by music fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋