2007-05-26 15:02:38 · 12 answers · asked by sherralle05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure what type your bf is. Perhaps his ego is crushed easily, so you have to chose a way that doesn't crush his male pride. I personally feel honesty is the best way. The next time you're headed for a place where he can "attempt" to hit the spot, let him know, just like men, women have levels of orgasm and you need that "BIG" one that makes your eyes roll back and your toes curl back into your feet, that earth shattering one. He'll become intrigued and try HARDER to hitting that spot, hell SHOW him. Ever heard that sayin, "a closed mouth never gets fed"? It doesn't relate just to food.
2007-05-26 15:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him. SHOW HIM.
Next time things go that way TELL HIM EXACTLY what you want where, how hard/soft/fast/slow/etc. He will learn without the negative reaction of an "after" conversation and you'll like that session much better. You may learn a few things too.
2007-05-26 22:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to show him and tell him what feels good to you and if he is hitting the right spot,I am sure he wants to please you in return.Just tell him.
2007-05-26 22:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about it dont hide it, He will not get mad if you tell him the truth and you will not be satisfied if you dont either. Or better yet show him when the time is wright. It ads more bondage between the two and he will learn to trust even more
Dave B
2007-05-26 22:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by bromley_4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him also try to let him finger you let him hit the g-spot that feels really good well thats what my girl said
2007-05-26 22:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should be your husband before you allow him the privilege of looking for the spot. Why give your precious self to someone who is not committed to you? You cheapen yourself and you should not let him touch you anymore until he marries you.
2007-05-26 22:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Next time he goes fumbling around, ask him if he is done yet. Trust me, he will get the message that he is missing the mark.
2007-05-26 22:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by heartswiper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can he know what to do if you don't tell/guide him.
if he is considerate he will take your direction and do the needed.
2007-05-26 23:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grab him by the ears and say...HEY! TO THE LEFT! or right, or ya know...which ever direction
2007-05-26 22:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Made You Look 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with #1 answer
2007-05-26 22:05:49 · answer #10 · answered by broken_monkey08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋