2007-05-26 14:34:13 · 24 answers · asked by Michelle M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You figure out if you're ready and respond accordingly. If you say yes, then you discuss STDs, past experience (in general terms), birth control and how you expect this to impact your relationship.
2007-05-26 14:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready or it isn't your belief then don't let your self be pressured . A boy will always want to. But you have the control. If your not ready he should respect that. The time spent before the "act " is better than the sex.
2007-05-26 14:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at what Jesus said about this act. You should NOT do this. Just because society says it is ok in this day and age, it does NOT change what is moraly right. Any boy who is looking at a girl in anykind of sexual way has NO morals whatsoever! ! ! For GOD'S sake get as far away from him you can.! ! ! ! Tell him to get his mind out of the gutter and stop thinking with the "HEAD" in his pants. He will know what you mean, even though you might not.
2007-05-26 14:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Rennis Garigin G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easy! Just say you want to wait until marriage. If you guys start having sex now then your whole relationship will just be based on sex. If you wait until marriage it will be something special. Explain this to him. If he keeps pressuring you to have sex then dump him cause he doesn't respect your true beliefs.
2007-05-26 14:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Blair W ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you to have sex with him and you're not ready or you're uncomfortable. Say NO. You have every right to stick up for yourself and if he really loves you he'll understand and not force you to do anything. But if he does want to force you to do stuff it could lead to abuse. If he keeps asking just leave, he's not worth it if he doesn't accept your decisions.
Hope that helped.
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2007-05-26 14:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by music_lvr29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want, to tell him no. Tell him you're not ready to go that far. Don't let him pressure into doing something you don't want to do and you are going to regret. It's your body and you shouldn't feel pressured. And girl if he still presses you after you tell him this he doesn't really love you, and you should say Good-Bye!!!!
2007-05-26 14:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Your Not Ready then Don't Do It, If He Forces You Or Pushes You Down That's Called Rape
2007-05-26 14:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by motherin37days 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready then do NOT do it. The consequences are not worth it. Trust me!!! Do what is right for you and NEVER EVER let a guy pressure you into doing somthing you are not comfortable with.
2007-05-26 14:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(assuming your a virgin)how long have you been together..my bigest worry in a relationship is being used..like some men jsut want to get in ur pants..i know its a cliche but honestly the best advice u hear all the time..go with your heart..if you have doubt ..dnt do it
2007-05-26 14:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no. That privilege should be reserved for your husband on your wedding night. Don't cheapen yourself by giving it up for free to someone who is not committed to you. Many problems will happen if you do.
2007-05-26 14:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋