Why is a married man attracted to a gal who is not pretty?

Question

There is this married man(35 yrs old) who is attracted to a gal(30yrs old). His wife is much prettier than this gal.

So why is this married man so attracted to this gal?

The Married man, didnt have any sex activity with the gal.

Answer 1

the other woman probably understands him better than his wife does or at least thats the way he feels

Answer 2

Wow, you have issues! Did someone leave you for another woman who happened to be a single mom and now you are bitter, blaming single mothers because the man you chose was faithless? There is nothing wrong with dating a single mother or a divorced woman with children. Marriages in this country have about a 50% chance of working out, so a good portion of the population is divorced and a lot of those people have kids. I was a woman with children when I met my current husband. We have a great life and are very happy together. I am not college educated, but I would say that I am a good person who is intelligent, capable and fun to spend time with. Virgins are very hard to come by after high school and there are a lot of non-virgins out there who are beautiful, accomplished and worthy of a good man. Fast and cheap sex? Puh-leese! A lot of women enjoy sexual relationships and there is nothing worng with that. Why shouldn't a woman decide to have sex with a man if she so desires? Nothing cheap about it and its very common. In a way, I feel sorry for you. Sounds like your man left you for a woman he could enjoy life to the fullest with. Too bad you are so rigid and intolerant that he couldn't be happy with you.

Answer 3

you are the married man so stop with the third person. you are attracted to this other women becuase you got married when you were in your twenties didnt date enough differnt women. now your 35 and are interested in other options instead of being tied down the rest of your life. my advice is deal with it. you have a wife be nice to her and stop worrying about younger women who will never date a lame 35 year old married man like yourself.

Answer 4

I have seen this too. A guy with a nice, svelte wife went for a porker who looked 10 years older than she in fact was.

All I can figure is maybe bored with the known quantity, and wanting to play. There are problems with that theory, for sure, but I am at a loss to explain it otherwise.

Answer 5

Are you the wife? Attraction is a funny thing and pretty does not have much to do with it. Men can be very selfish and this woman may feed his ego and make him believe he is the world's greatest lover(even if they are not having an affair).

Answer 6

Maybe she's attracted to her and your not. It's all a matter of opinion. Maybe he thinks that she's "easy". Not saying unattractive women are easy, but her confidence may be low and he's trying to take advantage of her.

Hey maybe his confidence is low and he doesn't feel worthy enough to be with his attractive wife. Who the hell knows what goes through people's minds.

Do you want to get with the married dude?

Answer 7

After marriage, people who have affairs are usually attracted to qualities their spouse lacks. It has nothing to do with physical beauty (although often it does), just qualities of his wife and the relationship between them that he finds lacking.

Answer 8

Maybe this girl is pretty to him.
Pretty doesn't mean a thing.It's whats inside the person that counts.Looks are only skin deep.Beauty comes from the inside.

Answer 9

Maybe his wife treats him badly and thinks she can because she's hot? If that's the case maybe he reasons if he finds someone less attractive she'll value him more.

Answer 10

His wife might not be giving him the love he needs. He might hurt ''that gal''. ''That gal'' should stay away from him because she might end up hurt.