Okay, we have not went on our first date yet. My mom saw him last Saturday. He was actually a customer of hers and she told him to phone me. So he did a day or two later. We met up the day after we talked on the phone and hung out for maybe 5 minutes. He had to take his co-worker home. Okay, anyway, he called me every day after that...a lot...telling me he missed me sooo much and couldn't wait to see me again, how he wished he could just hold and cuddle me...all those lovely things. Anyway, today we were supposed to go on a date and he hasn't called...and I've tried to call both of his cell phones and he's not answering... is it okay to freak out or am I assuming right? Should I just move on? The dating game wears me out....help!
2007-05-26 14:15:19 · 17 answers · asked by Answer Girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like this guy got nervous about your upcoming date and is chickening out. I would call him and leave him a message on his phone. Make it very clear that this is your LAST call to him if you don't hear from him. Tell him that it doesn't seem like he is interested in you. If he doesn't call you before you go to bed tonight, then to hell with him. Don't call him again. If he doesn't call you tonight before you go to bed, then just forget him and move on with your life. If this guy really cared about you, he would answer your calls and he would still be calling you. Good luck with everything. I hope that everything works out the way that you want it to. Take care.
2007-05-26 14:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by cmg1977 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay... that's a little weird. That he kept calling you and then all of a sudden he didn't answer his phone when you tried calling him... I think you should just move on and forget this guy, seriously. Either that or he's just INSANELY busy, and can't answer his phone, or maybe his dog died, or cat, or fish or whatever and he's to sad to call you. I don't know.
2007-05-26 21:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Rain-- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you moving on from? Listen... I am sure if there is a good explanation it will be given but for now make plans go out with some friends and have some fun.
2007-05-26 21:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Monique S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The dating games really can wear you down. Forget this guy. He's a jerk. Move on and find someone decent. Good luck to you.
2007-05-26 21:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let it pass and see what transpires. Something may have come up and he had to go somewhere for something where he couldn't use a cell phone. Just wait and see what happens. I wouldn't call him though.
2007-05-26 21:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by don n 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is not answering? That is your answer... and if you really think about it - you already know that.
You barely know this guy... there are plenty out there.. don't stay so focused on one who is NOT doing when there are others who would be doing..
Your ego is just bruised a bit. which is normal... Let him go at ego bruising -- before he affects your entire self-worth...
2007-05-26 21:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by astutewoman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds creepy, I would move on. Stop calling him it sounds desperate. If wants to go out with you he knows where to reach you.
2007-05-26 21:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has like issues cuz one minute he luvs u and the next he doesn't call u. maybe he'll call soon just wait! :)
if u talk to him and he doesn't seem very sorry for not calling u, then just dump him :)
ur better than him!
2007-05-26 21:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be glad to get out of this so easy, he sounds like a complete nut.
2007-05-26 21:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by marie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes taking advantage of you by playing mind games just blow him off
2007-05-26 21:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by NNOSA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋