And yes I know the age difference is 4 yrs but i like him and hes showed me his webcam so i kno hes actually 16. How can I ask out a 16 yr old if I'm only 12? And yes I kno he sort of likes me more than a friend and even asked if I had a bf once.
2007-05-26 14:12:53 · 24 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im almost 13
2007-05-26 14:16:05 · update #1
NO!! i noe you have the proof and everything- but that is soooo unsafe- NO NO NO NO!! that and if he is on the web he could be cheating on his girlfriend and just using you or something- NO NO NO NO NO!! Doesn't matter how old you are or how close you are to "13" that is still MAJOR DANGEROUS!!
2007-05-26 14:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to consider he's two years away from graduating. By the time he graduates you wont even be in highschool yet... Dont grow up too fast take your time and if you feel like you absolutly have to have a boyfriend, look for a guy more your age, trust me in the long run you'll be more appreciative because your intrest will coincide more frequently than if you were to date this older boy. Youth is an invaluble thing, grasp it and clench it and enjoy it while its here. :-) God Bless
2007-05-28 13:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Stimulant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be really really careful of this. Older guys tend to want one thing, no offense to them cause some do not.
But be really careful my ex-husband was about five years older then me. I was seventeen when he found me but during our marriage I found out that he was interested in younger girls and I do mean younger like your age (11-13).
A lot of sexual predators use the Internet to get to younger girls. My ex did before he ever turned 18. So just be very very careful. It might be okay just use extreme caution to stay on the safe side. And if he asks to meet you take a group of friends with you and do not go off alone with him for any reason.
2007-05-26 21:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lily S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously it's prob not a good idea. If he would agree to goin out with u and he's 16, he's most likely a perv and just wants somethin easy to persuade (dont take it the wrong way). if u get a bf at all, i would suggest the oldest guy should be about 14 for u.
2007-05-26 21:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur going to get raped do u want to get raped i mean im a thirteen
but u never know if hes 16 he could be some 30 yr old guy with kids who probably put a picture of his kid on the net
baby girl i dont want to sound like a mom but girls always get hurt from these situations
just looking out if you want to see how these pervs hide their age watch nbc's how to catch a pedifile
and just because youve seen him on webcam doesnt mean its him
2007-05-26 21:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Charlie Rae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go for it. Enjoy your childhood and innocense, dont spoil it by going after an older guy. Your time will come when you will be 16 and then you will get older. Someday you will look back on your life and you will wish you were who you are right now. A nice 12 year old girl.
2007-05-26 21:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by ANyone but you 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He might be showing you someone else on webcam + you are Way too young to be going out- he has bad intentions anyway- if he knows your age!
WAke Up Child- Find another hobby & stop posting here Ur Not an adult!!!!!
2007-05-26 21:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lynnette_is_a_Lovely_Latina! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, the reality is a 16 yr old boy thinks about one thing and you're just to young to make that decision, wait unti lyour 15 + b4 going with older guys.
2007-05-26 21:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to watch the show about perverts on the Internet. Maybe you should contact the local sheriff and he could set up a trap to catch perverts using you as bait.
2007-05-26 21:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by don n 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
jesus christ ..the world has turned in to somethin else 12 year old thinking of dating a 16 year old on the internet...thats vile that aint right..
sweetheart u way to small,
does yr mummy know about this?
2007-05-26 21:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋