I'm going to be 22 years old and didn't know when would be best! have them when i'm young and have more energy or have them when i'm older(will i be tired by then?)
2007-05-26 12:34:58 · 13 answers · asked by lailabayla85 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I was married for 9 years before we had our one and only. By then we were financially ready, mature enough, had time to finish my college, had time to get to really know one another, and we just knew it was God's timing. I was 34 when I had my daughter, but my sister in law was in her early 20's when she had her first and 4 kids later and being married for 20 something years now. It worked for her.
2007-05-26 16:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never in my opinion, You can never have enough money or enough of everything so basically I wouldnt chalk it up to when your finacially stable or anything else.
The best time to have a baby is when you know in your heart you are without a doubt ready to give up the life you have now..Having a baby and being a mom is wonderful, but it is a big sacrifice. I dont believe anyone who says otherwise. You Should do research first, It is a 24hr, round the clock job that is demanding. And all well worth it when you look down at your little one and see a bit of yourself looking back. If your ready for long nights, bottles, classical music and diapers I say do it. You can never really prepare yourself at any point in your life for all that comes with being a mom. It is an emotional rollercoaster with happiness and a bit of sadness. I would also ask yourself if you have really gone and done some of the important things in your life and felt confident you were ready to be settled for the next few years. Because when the baby comes...Its all about the baby.
2007-05-26 23:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by bedazzled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have stability (emotional, financial) and maturity. This could be anywhere between 22 & 42 !!!
I was 28 & 31 for mine & it was just right for me. Did some travelling first, explored several jobs, bought a house. Was very good timing due to both planning AND LUCK :)
I think the most important is the emotional stability / maturity, no matter what your age. I wouldn't worry so much about the energy - you find it when you need it! ....and they'll make you tired no matter how young & fit you are!! :-)
2007-05-26 19:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by S P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best time to have children would be when your ready. Financially, emotionally and physically. Also, being mature and in a stable relationship. You'll always be tired no matter what age you have babies. I also hear that having babies when your in your 20's, you won't feel pregnancy pains that much.
2007-05-26 21:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by shortie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number! good time to have a baby depends most on the stability of your marriage and whether you have adequate finances.
Keep yourself in good shape, and you won't have to worry about being too tired to have kids at 35. Lots of women are in better shape at 35 than they are at 25 because they've realised the importance of taking care of themselves.
2007-05-26 19:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In life there is never a right time to have a baby.Your either busy or working or just tired.The best time to have a baby is any time because a baby is a joy.
2007-05-26 19:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Chance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are emotionally ready - if that means you are in your 20's, your 30's or your 40's - then that's when you should do it.
2007-05-27 09:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your middle 20's is a great time to begin your family.
2007-05-26 19:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, it really depends. are you ready to give up your life to a baby or do you have a future plan that having a baby would interfer with.
2007-05-26 20:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your mid 20's
2007-05-26 20:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋