Do other women feel this way? I love rejecting the men that to me have no reason to feel confident approaching me. I think most guys are annoying...but I'm not gay. I do like men, just most I find are not ever trying to develop a relationship with you. Do any other women enjoy rejecting men?
2007-05-26 11:51:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reisling... you know if I wasn't happily married, I think I would make it my personal quest in life to find you, walk up to you with confidence and purpose, introduce myself to you and then sweep you off you feet... I'd quickly show you that there are some men out there who can treat you the way you want to be. You just have to be patient and one will find you. And I am willing to bet a case of your favorite drink that he'll be exactly what you are looking for, but can't seem to find.
As for your question... I'd hope so, because there are a lot of jerks out there and you have every right to be picky and only settle for the ones who meet you criteria. The rest deserved to be rejected so maybe they'll grow up and stop making the rest of us look bad.
Dan
2007-05-26 18:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dan M 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I was in a similar situation with an ex-girlfriend. There's no really easy way to get over this. For me, I hit a point where I realized that whatever I did for this woman was moot, and that I was wasting my time. I also realized that I was hurting myself by pursuing it. I cut myself completely off: I told her I wanted nothing more to do with her, and refused to see, talk to, or think about her. Of course, I think it was helpful that she random showed up at my apartment five months later claiming that she "had to see me". It seemed like she had become nostalgic over our relationship, and forgot about the reasons that we broke up. After an hour of trying my best to be polite while talking to her, I had to be perfectly blunt: I told her I had no interest in rehashing the past. If I had to guess, based on your question: are you still in high school or attending college? If you are, fret not. It's going to appear difficult to get through this now. But high school is not forever, and you'll likely never see him again.
2016-04-01 09:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO I don't reject men because it hurts me and I know it would hut other the men also...this isnt nice but what is your pupose you act as if you are everything a man needs and wants so don't be rude...SMILE
2007-05-26 11:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i have a friend who loves to lead men on who she would never ever consider dating, just because she likes the self-esteem boost of a man who is fawning over her. i'm not a huge fan of her concept of this, but i think things like what you're doing are more common than you think.
2007-05-26 11:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Some men are just asking for it. I hate those over confident guys that think that because they have graced you with their presence that you are supposed to fall all over them. I not only love rejecting those types of guys, but also knocking them down a peg or two.
2007-05-26 11:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by PhoebeBB 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
why do YOU love rejecting them. I suppose because you're a *****. can't wait for you to get on here crying one day because people are rejecting you. LMAO
2007-05-26 11:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
probably because u have low self esteem and it makes u feel better about yourself
2007-05-26 11:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Your a btich
2007-05-26 11:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
No real women don't.
2007-05-26 11:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you wouldn't reject this...and my 11in monster...lol :)
2007-05-26 11:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by jjackson0609 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋