That is, what was "it" about the men to whom you seem to have always been attracted?
2007-05-26 10:05:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
smart, funny and kind
2007-05-26 10:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eyes, Brains, Kindness, Hairs nice but not necessary, I mention all these other things because on a whole these are part of a personality, funny, compliment's are much nicer them criticism, some guy's think teasing is the way to attract and this is not so, it is usually done poorly and offends. Let me give an example- a women does something like sells her house and asks for some advice and he start out by telling that what she has done is stupid, wrong answer!!! instead of listening or saying how can I help you. Get it !
2007-05-26 17:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Reta S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...here are a few of a combination of qualities that've intrigued me:
great manners and yet has a mischievous side
very sexual and playful
humour...more on the dry side, intelligent humour
reflective, intelligent
great taste in music
a noticable passion of some kind
a driven nature
very masculine yet there's some feminine quality inexplicable
more....
and if he's quite attractive these qualities make him extremely
sexy
anyway...he seems to be a rare find and when I do find him I become obsessed with him....lol
2007-05-26 17:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They had character, morals, faith, and honesty. I can get past many things in people as none of us are perfect, but honesty is a must. Without it you have nothing. I look for a man who respects woman as people, not just someone to have sex with. A man who stands up for himself and the ones he loves. I don't like weak men, I prefer strong yet gentle in some ways. Personality is first, looks later.
2007-05-26 17:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no one "it" -- it's a combination.
Brains are essential, as is a good sense of humor and social conscience -- but it's more the package, including quirkiness, various talents and abilities, personality.
They've all been smart, funny, and men who think for themselves; interesting.
Other than that, they've all been different.
2007-05-26 21:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is a huge thing for me. Followed by a backbone. Only weak girls really want that soft overly caring guy. It's one thing to be a nice boy but it's another to be a total push over. Stand up for yourself, always. It's hot.
2007-05-26 17:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by paintourskies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am attracted to guys more on the big size, strong shoulders and chest, and lots of hair on the chest, but not chewbacca like. Um, brown hair, and of course beautiful eyes.
2007-05-26 17:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always been attracted to a man that looks me in the eye when I speak to him - shows he is really listening to you. It seems like the guys I like are so much taller than me. they don't try to get me to go out with those corny come-on lines. Ones who have very sexy eyes ( bedroom eyes ) They want to please more than they want to be pleased.
2007-05-26 17:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by chercinbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a man who has an open mind, who is a great conversationalist, who is responsible but knows how to be silly and have some fun.
2007-05-26 17:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by The Lord's Child 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always been attracted to shy guys. But I don't speak for all women. That's just me.
2007-05-26 17:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by blue_seal07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like bad boys that are bad sometimes but good other times. I like talkative, funny, smart and creative guys the best
2007-05-26 17:07:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋