and how will they act later on?
2007-05-26 09:59:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same effect coming from a deadbeat mom has: None, although situations just like people are different so results may vary. It is all dependent upon the parenting skills or lack there of of the custodial parent. Brainwashing your kid into focusing only on the negative things about the other parent is always a bad idea.
For the most part, it is not completely true that most parents WILL NOT pay child support but rather they CANNOT pay what is owed due to the state charging interest and misc fees and penalties and whatever paperwork fees they can on top of the support.
Granted the non custodial parent should take some responsibility financially for their kid, but being able to take up to 56% (varies on state)of an owing parent's income is just outrageous. Realistically, what are they themselves to survive on?
Next time you see those wanted posters, stop and actually read them. You will notice that a majority, approximately 97% of the people there are general laborers and don't make a whole heck of a lot of money themselves.
Another note goes out to the brainiacs who thought by taking professional and driver's licenses away of those who were not paying support was actually punishing the person in question. In reality by doing this, lawmakers have made it even more difficult for a person who owes to attain or keep a job, thus as a result hurts the child. Instead of working against people and their life situations, why not work with them? Why, because lawmakers want the voters to see them as the good guy and are doing something productive.
2007-05-26 10:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by J T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sons are 22, 19, and 16. They have a deadbeat dad. His abandon them has truly effect them. They are trying to live life without him. But it hard. They are some things a boy needs his dad for. They all swear they will never leave their kids ever.I have never said anything negative about their father. But they truly hate him.Don't want any thing to do with him now. That is truly sad.
2007-05-26 10:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can make you stronger as you get older to not wanna turn out like your dead beat dad. but it can also make you grow up and not wanna trust very easily especially a male role model. if your man enough to create the baby you should be man enough to be there for your child. children need both parents in there life. but remember ANY man can make a baby BUT it takes a REAL MAN to be a Father.
2007-05-26 10:09:41 · answer #3 · answered by sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly abandonment and trust issues. But also self worth issues.
Very Sad
2007-05-26 10:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by mystickle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not give them a good male role model and they may just turn out like him.
2007-05-26 10:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Krayden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully not like the dad.
2007-05-26 10:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should know this.
2007-05-26 10:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by ;-) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋